"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Reason to Avoid Cologne

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Humans prefer the smell of MCH Dissimilar mates (Proof in the Links)

MCH is a chunk of your DNA that codes for a significant part of your immune system. MCH dissimilar partners have children with stronger immune systems. In Humans MCH is also referred to as HLA (human leukocyte antigen)


Many animals, including humans have been shown to be attracted to the smell produces by MCH dissimilar mates.


We know that we can distinguish this smell.


We also know that it produces healthier offspring when we mate with MCH dissimilar mates, so it would stand to reason that we have evolved to be attracted to the smell of MCH dissimilar mates.

But it's a little more complicated in humans. Single women prefer the smell of MCH similar mates, and women in relationships prefer the smell of MCH dissimilar mates. There are many ways you could take this, but I take it as women looking for genetic variation through different fathers, so that there is a better chance some of their children will survive. However, other studies show that if the couple is MCH dissimilar then she is less likely to want to want to cheat.

In addition the contraception pill reverses a woman's preference if she' on it.


Study Below shows that women prefer men who have a medium level of differences in MCH. The preference of male oders is paternally inherited.


The Point of all of this, is that there is not a universal attractive smell.

So Why not Use a Perfume


If you're only going to attract a segment of the population with your smell weather or not you use a perfume, then you are wasting your money buying one. Also, when it comes to compatible genes, mate choice goes both ways. You are more likely to love the smell of the women that love your smell. By changing only your smell, you are hurting your chances for this kind of smell match.

Natural Pheromones:

So we've proven your natural scent is important in attracting a match. Showering too often not only strips your skin of protectant oils, and your micro biom, and dries out your skin, but also washes away your natural pheromones.


I could give you a bunch of wild personal anecdotes on this, that made me a believer long before finding the studies to back it up, as well as plenty of anecdotes from other people, but I'm leaving this thread with only the scientific studies because those are the hardest most concreate proof.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Humans prefer the smell of MCH Dissimilar mates (Proof in the Links)

MCH is a chunk of your DNA that codes for a significant part of your immune system. MCH dissimilar partners have children with stronger immune systems. In Humans MCH is also referred to as HLA (human leukocyte antigen)


Many animals, including humans have been shown to be attracted to the smell produces by MCH dissimilar mates.


We know that we can distinguish this smell.


We also know that it produces healthier offspring when we mate with MCH dissimilar mates, so it would stand to reason that we have evolved to be attracted to the smell of MCH dissimilar mates.

But it's a little more complicated in humans. Single women prefer the smell of MCH similar mates, and women in relationships prefer the smell of MCH dissimilar mates. There are many ways you could take this, but I take it as women looking for genetic variation through different fathers, so that there is a better chance some of their children will survive. However, other studies show that if the couple is MCH dissimilar then she is less likely to want to want to cheat.

In addition the contraception pill reverses a woman's preference if she' on it.


Study Below shows that women prefer men who have a medium level of differences in MCH. The preference of male oders is paternally inherited.


The Point of all of this, is that there is not a universal attractive smell.

So Why not Use a Perfume


If you're only going to attract a segment of the population with your smell weather or not you use a perfume, then you are wasting your money buying one. Also, when it comes to compatible genes, mate choice goes both ways. You are more likely to love the smell of the women that love your smell. By changing only your smell, you are hurting your chances for this kind of smell match.

Natural Pheromones:

So we've proven your natural scent is important in attracting a match. Showering too often not only strips your skin of protectant oils, and your micro biom, and dries out your skin, but also washes away your natural pheromones.


I could give you a bunch of wild personal anecdotes on this, that made me a believer long before finding the studies to back it up, as well as plenty of anecdotes from other people, but I'm leaving this thread with only the scientific studies because those are the hardest most concreate proof.
It amazes me how some guys here are so dorky, they put so much of their valuable thought time into over-analyzing what may or may not attract women. Who cares! This time should be better invested in climbing mountains, swimming channels, building skyscrapers, and of course starting religions!
 

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I think plenty of men use this as an excuse not to practice proper hygiene…

Seriously some of you mofos are smellier than a muskrat AT A DISTANCE.
 

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I think plenty of men use this as an excuse not to practice proper hygiene…

Seriously some of you mofos are smellier than a muskrat AT A DISTANCE.
This is about people who shower multiple times a day, you are also not supposed to use shampoo more than 3 times a week.
 
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