"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Reason to Avoid Cologne

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Humans prefer the smell of MCH Dissimilar mates (Proof in the Links)

MCH is a chunk of your DNA that codes for a significant part of your immune system. MCH dissimilar partners have children with stronger immune systems. In Humans MCH is also referred to as HLA (human leukocyte antigen)


Many animals, including humans have been shown to be attracted to the smell produces by MCH dissimilar mates.


We know that we can distinguish this smell.


We also know that it produces healthier offspring when we mate with MCH dissimilar mates, so it would stand to reason that we have evolved to be attracted to the smell of MCH dissimilar mates.

But it's a little more complicated in humans. Single women prefer the smell of MCH similar mates, and women in relationships prefer the smell of MCH dissimilar mates. There are many ways you could take this, but I take it as women looking for genetic variation through different fathers, so that there is a better chance some of their children will survive. However, other studies show that if the couple is MCH dissimilar then she is less likely to want to want to cheat.

In addition the contraception pill reverses a woman's preference if she' on it.


Study Below shows that women prefer men who have a medium level of differences in MCH. The preference of male oders is paternally inherited.


The Point of all of this, is that there is not a universal attractive smell.

So Why not Use a Perfume


If you're only going to attract a segment of the population with your smell weather or not you use a perfume, then you are wasting your money buying one. Also, when it comes to compatible genes, mate choice goes both ways. You are more likely to love the smell of the women that love your smell. By changing only your smell, you are hurting your chances for this kind of smell match.

Natural Pheromones:

So we've proven your natural scent is important in attracting a match. Showering too often not only strips your skin of protectant oils, and your micro biom, and dries out your skin, but also washes away your natural pheromones.


I could give you a bunch of wild personal anecdotes on this, that made me a believer long before finding the studies to back it up, as well as plenty of anecdotes from other people, but I'm leaving this thread with only the scientific studies because those are the hardest most concreate proof.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Humans prefer the smell of MCH Dissimilar mates (Proof in the Links)

MCH is a chunk of your DNA that codes for a significant part of your immune system. MCH dissimilar partners have children with stronger immune systems. In Humans MCH is also referred to as HLA (human leukocyte antigen)


Many animals, including humans have been shown to be attracted to the smell produces by MCH dissimilar mates.


We know that we can distinguish this smell.


We also know that it produces healthier offspring when we mate with MCH dissimilar mates, so it would stand to reason that we have evolved to be attracted to the smell of MCH dissimilar mates.

But it's a little more complicated in humans. Single women prefer the smell of MCH similar mates, and women in relationships prefer the smell of MCH dissimilar mates. There are many ways you could take this, but I take it as women looking for genetic variation through different fathers, so that there is a better chance some of their children will survive. However, other studies show that if the couple is MCH dissimilar then she is less likely to want to want to cheat.

In addition the contraception pill reverses a woman's preference if she' on it.


Study Below shows that women prefer men who have a medium level of differences in MCH. The preference of male oders is paternally inherited.


The Point of all of this, is that there is not a universal attractive smell.

So Why not Use a Perfume


If you're only going to attract a segment of the population with your smell weather or not you use a perfume, then you are wasting your money buying one. Also, when it comes to compatible genes, mate choice goes both ways. You are more likely to love the smell of the women that love your smell. By changing only your smell, you are hurting your chances for this kind of smell match.

Natural Pheromones:

So we've proven your natural scent is important in attracting a match. Showering too often not only strips your skin of protectant oils, and your micro biom, and dries out your skin, but also washes away your natural pheromones.


I could give you a bunch of wild personal anecdotes on this, that made me a believer long before finding the studies to back it up, as well as plenty of anecdotes from other people, but I'm leaving this thread with only the scientific studies because those are the hardest most concreate proof.
It amazes me how some guys here are so dorky, they put so much of their valuable thought time into over-analyzing what may or may not attract women. Who cares! This time should be better invested in climbing mountains, swimming channels, building skyscrapers, and of course starting religions!
 

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I think plenty of men use this as an excuse not to practice proper hygiene…

Seriously some of you mofos are smellier than a muskrat AT A DISTANCE.
 

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I think plenty of men use this as an excuse not to practice proper hygiene…

Seriously some of you mofos are smellier than a muskrat AT A DISTANCE.
This is about people who shower multiple times a day, you are also not supposed to use shampoo more than 3 times a week.
 
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