I was planning on posting this one on the HS forum but i realized i need help from you men, now i dont know how it happended but to get to the bottom of it i eventualy end up making out with a 22 year old girl i picked up while working at Target. She led me on to getting some more, " i usualy dont take it to far on the first date". I used text/mysace for the past 3 days just to ask a simple ?, how you doing was all, and she has not responded. now i got her number on a tuesday went to her place on a thursday. she was under no substance. what the hell am i supposed to do?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
REALY NEED OLDER MANS HELP!!!Older Women!>>??? Urgent
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Perhaps you should have posted in the high school forum. Your above paragraph does not make sense and is filled with spelling errors.Sosa_80 said:I used text/mysace for the past 3 days just to ask a simple ?, how you doing was all, and she has not responded. now i got her number on a tuesday went to her place on a thursday. she was under no substance. what the hell am i supposed to do?
"She was under no substance, what the hell am I supposed to do?"
What does that mean? She was not on drugs and you wanted her to be?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Simply, there is nothing you can do. YOU want something from her.
Let it go and enjoy it for what it was.
Don't go trying to make a girl friend out of her or something. She knows how to get a hold of you right? If she wants some more, she'll find you.
And a side note, brush up on your English if you plan on posting on an English speaking forum.
Let it go and enjoy it for what it was.
Don't go trying to make a girl friend out of her or something. She knows how to get a hold of you right? If she wants some more, she'll find you.
And a side note, brush up on your English if you plan on posting on an English speaking forum.