I was planning on posting this one on the HS forum but i realized i need help from you men, now i dont know how it happended but to get to the bottom of it i eventualy end up making out with a 22 year old girl i picked up while working at Target. She led me on to getting some more, " i usualy dont take it to far on the first date". I used text/mysace for the past 3 days just to ask a simple ?, how you doing was all, and she has not responded. now i got her number on a tuesday went to her place on a thursday. she was under no substance. what the hell am i supposed to do?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Perhaps you should have posted in the high school forum. Your above paragraph does not make sense and is filled with spelling errors.Sosa_80 said:I used text/mysace for the past 3 days just to ask a simple ?, how you doing was all, and she has not responded. now i got her number on a tuesday went to her place on a thursday. she was under no substance. what the hell am i supposed to do?
"She was under no substance, what the hell am I supposed to do?"
What does that mean? She was not on drugs and you wanted her to be?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ryoku
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Simply, there is nothing you can do. YOU want something from her.
Let it go and enjoy it for what it was.
Don't go trying to make a girl friend out of her or something. She knows how to get a hold of you right? If she wants some more, she'll find you.
And a side note, brush up on your English if you plan on posting on an English speaking forum.
Let it go and enjoy it for what it was.
Don't go trying to make a girl friend out of her or something. She knows how to get a hold of you right? If she wants some more, she'll find you.
And a side note, brush up on your English if you plan on posting on an English speaking forum.