I was planning on posting this one on the HS forum but i realized i need help from you men, now i dont know how it happended but to get to the bottom of it i eventualy end up making out with a 22 year old girl i picked up while working at Target. She led me on to getting some more, " i usualy dont take it to far on the first date". I used text/mysace for the past 3 days just to ask a simple ?, how you doing was all, and she has not responded. now i got her number on a tuesday went to her place on a thursday. she was under no substance. what the hell am i supposed to do?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Perhaps you should have posted in the high school forum. Your above paragraph does not make sense and is filled with spelling errors.Sosa_80 said:I used text/mysace for the past 3 days just to ask a simple ?, how you doing was all, and she has not responded. now i got her number on a tuesday went to her place on a thursday. she was under no substance. what the hell am i supposed to do?
"She was under no substance, what the hell am I supposed to do?"
What does that mean? She was not on drugs and you wanted her to be?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ryoku
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Simply, there is nothing you can do. YOU want something from her.
Let it go and enjoy it for what it was.
Don't go trying to make a girl friend out of her or something. She knows how to get a hold of you right? If she wants some more, she'll find you.
And a side note, brush up on your English if you plan on posting on an English speaking forum.
Let it go and enjoy it for what it was.
Don't go trying to make a girl friend out of her or something. She knows how to get a hold of you right? If she wants some more, she'll find you.
And a side note, brush up on your English if you plan on posting on an English speaking forum.