"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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really tired of hearing that boyfriends are obstacles

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BrokenTrustDrummer

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Girls with boyfriends actually allow you to skip a step. You don't have to earn their trust in order for them to let their guard down. They will actually be more free to flirt because they think to themselves, "It doesn't matter if I'm not defensive because I have a boyfriend and I'm not really going to do anything with him soo..." They have the frame of mind that they are safe because they have a boyfriend, as soon as you seduce her "which usually doesn't take more than 4 days" you can begin to let her see what an awesome boyfriend you would be and at that point it's usually not hard at all to get her to drop her current boyfriend.
Dangerous waters? yes Wrong? maybe... I just got tired of hearing it. Truthfully, it's actually easier.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wiesman44

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thats pretty low gunning for other dudes girlfriends. There's plenty of girls out there, why screw over other people's healthy relationships to satisfy your lust ?
 
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Originally posted by Wiesman44
thats pretty low gunning for other dudes girlfriends. There's plenty of girls out there, why screw over other people's healthy relationships to satisfy your lust ?
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fool... don't be hating and judging... besides if relationship was so healthy why was it broken up?

I regret all these times I let bf excuse stop me... I didnt' know better and in retrospect I had a great chance of getting the girl. UGH live and learn... and school is starting real soon
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i do not think it makes it easier, you have to out play her boyfreind, i think it makes it much harder and i would not go there because thats tight braking people up like that and im not sure how you act around girls but they do not put there guard up around me so much, and its a lot easier to brake there defence then get her to dump her boy freind, and why do you asume she wont put her guard up at the end of the day just because shes got a boyfreind its nto going to make her love every guy that goes up and tlaks to her is it, the answers no and theres less risk of getting beaten up.
 
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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
i do not think it makes it easier, you have to out play her boyfreind, i think it makes it much harder and i would not go there because thats tight braking people up like that and im not sure how you act around girls but they do not put there guard up around me so much, and its a lot easier to brake there defence then get her to dump her boy freind, and why do you asume she wont put her guard up at the end of the day just because shes got a boyfreind its nto going to make her love every guy that goes up and tlaks to her is it, the answers no and theres less risk of getting beaten up.
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You win for the longest run-on sentence I've ever seen. Also, you kind of avoided the whole point of the post. Nobody claimed that a girl will "love every guy that goes up and talks to her". Why are you hating on this post with nonsensical rambling? :rolleyes: :confused:
 
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wtf are you on about, i do not aggree with the post so i have given my oppinion. Simple as that, and it looks liek you cant even think for yourself, all you can do is point out whats wrong with what other people say, that is lame.
 
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People think its a game...Dont mess around with the wrong dudes girl and get fukked up...People kill over puzzy...Just remember that...
 
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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
People think its a game...Dont mess around with the wrong dudes girl and get fukked up...People kill over puzzy...Just remember that...
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Also people live their lives as one
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
thats pretty low gunning for other dudes girlfriends. There's plenty of girls out there, why screw over other people's healthy relationships to satisfy your lust ?
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Cause if you **** someones girlfriend she's less likely to become a ****ing freakazoid that needs your attention 24-7
 
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