"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Really Stupid Question

Analyzeit

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This is really stupid question, but i've always been told its the small things that count.. and to be honest I have this problem a lot and I always feel like I came off as an arsehole anyway heres 1 of the best example I can think of.

This girl was like: So Whose Going to tie my shoelaces

Me and My Mate (Natural PUA) Eeeeer

Girl: Oh guys do it at school for me all the time, it's so easy. (I think she could tell that we not the type of people that tie someones shoelace lol)

Anyway we kinda had to split ways so she didn't really persist at it

Now obviously tying her shoelaces is completely AFC, and I sure as **** was not gonna try that *****es shoelaces lol '

Anyway what am I meant to say if she persists just "No" blatantly then stand there like an idiot, I don't wanna come off like an a-hole so what should I say in this position and many others

I think if she persisted I was gonna say that "I'd Rather stick needles in my eyes" lol

I couldn't find advice on this anywhere, DJ bible always misses out the small things

yeah stupid question but i think it might help me and many others


Oh and this is for a mate, If a chick says "ohh im happy wer we r n dnt wanna go futher" as in have sex, whats does that mean??? I figured it means where over but I dunno it could be a test, because the guy has kinda a reputation for this?? probably coulda made another thread on this topic but who cares lol
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm in the Mood

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tie her shoelaces together? lol

I'd just give a little laugh and leave man haha
 

eaglez1177

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Analyzeit said:
But I can't really walk away if i want in her pants lol
Yes you can. Next this fvcking b*tch and get over her.
 

Darth_Qurashi

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lol, if it was just one shoe, then i would instead, go to the other shoe and like untie it and run away. or like tie them both together so if she runs she'll trip. or just pull the laces so they get rlly loose, or like even pull them out of the shoe and run away with them haha. just do the opposite but make it look like u'l do it at first. who cares if she ends up liking u for ur bold attitude and sense of humour, or gets annoyed and pissed, cuz at the end of the day, its still funny, u stil burned her and so if u don't get wit her, u can still have a laugh.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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