"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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really sore arm pain

wildchild

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Ive been getting pain in my arm mostly starting from my elbow when doing weights. The pain runs right up my tricep( deep inside though it could maybe be the bone) right down my arm. I can trace it back to when this guy done an armlock thing on me - the ****. It has been getting progresivly worse any ideas what it might be / how to stop the pain.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Austizzle

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see a doctor??
 

Anhslaught

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I think you got tennis elbows. I get that once in awhile. I use heated pads for them and stop doing workouts that hyper extends your elbow until I heal. Workouts like preacher curls are the ones that hurt me. Picking it up is when it gets extended.
 
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