"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Really really hot woman at my crossfit

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She's incredible. Banging body, reallllly cute face. How do I pick her up?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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try the gorilla press
 
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Some woman who work out don't like to get hit on where they work out, the girl I went out with tonight told me she puts on her ipod and ignores everybody, and hates it when dudes try to talk to her. Feel her out maybe ask the whole group if they want to hang out after Crossfit sometime, that way you can get to know her without any pressure.
 
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Willard said:
Some woman who work out don't like to get hit on where they work out, the girl I went out with tonight told me she puts on her ipod and ignores everybody, and hates it when dudes try to talk to her. Feel her out maybe ask the whole group if they want to hang out after Crossfit sometime, that way you can get to know her without any pressure.
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think thats just a general rule with peoples attention spans.Most people who are concentrated on a task don't like having their concentration broken.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ududud said:
She's incredible. Banging body, reallllly cute face. How do I pick her up?
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first no matter how attractive a girl is don't put them on a pedestal. Most of the time it only validates their ego and not your ****.
 
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if the girl is as hot as you say, she's probably getting banged by 9-10 men. You should show up with an equally hot chick, and all of a sudden she will show interest in you.
 
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Found out she's a liberal and worst of all has a geeky boyfriend who's not as good looking as me. She's too tall for me anyways almost 6 foot. Still would have no qualms about stealing get for sex but there's other hot chicks in crossfit. Better to go for them for some hot sex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ududud said:
Found out she's a liberal and worst of all has a geeky boyfriend who's not as good looking as me. She's too tall for me anyways almost 6 foot. Still would have no qualms about stealing get for sex but there's other hot chicks in crossfit. Better to go for them for some hot sex.
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Geeky boyfriend? how does he look?
 
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Geeky boyfriend? how does he look?
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About 6 feet tall, average build, doesn't even workout much. Guys like that aren't supposed to get HB9s. He's an engineer. Whoopee.


She's a dark haired brunette but I'm usually luckier with blondes and there's hot blondes in crossfit and there more my ideal size about 5 foot 3.
 
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if the girl is as hot as you say, she's probably getting banged by 9-10 men. You should show up with an equally hot chick, and all of a sudden she will show interest in you.
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She has a boyfriend. Too many issues including her distugsting liberalism take away the appeal. There's so many other hot babes to choose from in crossfit.
 
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did you try picking her up with the gorilla press
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ududud said:
About 6 feet tall, average build, doesn't even workout much. Guys like that aren't supposed to get HB9s. He's an engineer. Whoopee.


She's a dark haired brunette but I'm usually luckier with blondes and there's hot blondes in crossfit and there more my ideal size about 5 foot 3.
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does he look in his 30's?
 
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ududud said:
About 6 feet tall, average build, doesn't even workout much. Guys like that aren't supposed to get HB9s. He's an engineer. Whoopee
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now wtf is that supposed to mean? who IS supposed to have hb9 then? you are? nice attitude. :nono: if he's an engineer it is ok to think he is kinda smart and makes good money. maybe the girl likes intelligent guys.
fact is, he has the girl and you don't. i like how guys with muscles think girls should love muscles, guys with big wieners say girls should love that, guys with money want girls who love wealthy men, and ugly guys want girls not to be so "shallow"
this girl isn't for you anyway from what you wrote. you already begin to pedestalize her even though you tried to belittle her to convince yourself you didn't like her anyway.
 
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now wtf is that supposed to mean? who IS supposed to have hb9 then? you are? nice attitude. :nono: if he's an engineer it is ok to think he is kinda smart and makes good money. maybe the girl likes intelligent guys.
fact is, he has the girl and you don't. i like how guys with muscles think girls should love muscles, guys with big wieners say girls should love that, guys with money want girls who love wealthy men, and ugly guys want girls not to be so "shallow"
this girl isn't for you anyway from what you wrote. you already begin to pedestalize her even though you tried to belittle her to convince yourself you didn't like her anyway.
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She wouldn't say hi to me today, snotty btch, but smiled and chatted with others about her boyfriend. Other hot chicks said hi and my eyes are now on them. How the fuk is mentioning how hot she is as pedastalizing her? In this leftist liberal world were not allowed to comment on the looks of chick because it's not polticly correct? She's fantastic looking, but just fukable and dumpable. All she can get is the nice guy geek who everyone knows is at the bottom of the food chain. There's so many other fish in the pond and many of the fish are just as hot and not insanely tall. She's like a foot taller than some of the chicks and of she wears heels she'd be freaking amazon, 5 foot 3 and 6 foot is the ideal height for a chick.


In case your wonder I've had more then my share of lays.
 
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does he look in his 30's?
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late 20s overweight, shes late 20s too, pair of losers. her hotness is all that's going for her. She was talking politics again and damn is she dumb. Homosexual marriage and the slaughter of unborn children by abortion, she said she won't vote for somebody not for those. she should shut her trap. Women being allowed to vote mistake?
 
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