Really nice chick tells me that the relationship is Platonic!

[therocker]

Okay i had this real fun relationship going with this one chick. Everything was working in my favor when suddenly outta the blue she tells me that the relationship we're having feels pretty Platonic. Well i really did cut down on the mush cause i know that she doesn't like mush much. Typical woman problem.

Thing is, she's one girl i'm really into - more than all the women i've dated combined!

Please HELP!

 

[blueline]

sounds like you haven't fucked her yet. give her some anal sex and show her who's boss.

 

[Iceberg]

Agree with blueline. The relationship wouldn't be platonic if you were banging her. Sounds like you didn't step up to the plate.

 

[therocker]

ah...i guessed as much, but she's not the kind who gives in easily. Any suggestions on what my next move should be?

 

[Iceberg]

ah...i guessed as much, but she's not the kind who gives in easily. Any suggestions on what my next move should be?

Well your first move should be to not call it a "relationship" unless there's sex involved. Maybe it's just a small a language barrier, but when I think of "relationship" I think of a man and woman going on dates and having sex.

A girl you're spending time with and NOT having sex with might as well be a man.

I can't even tell you the next move. Sounds like you've already given a lot of time to this girl and whatever you were doing made her think of you as platonic.

If a girl said that to me, my next move would be to disappear for a little while and give it a try sometime down the road. Or forget about her all together.

 

[therocker]

thanks for the honest reply iceberg! Appreciate it! I guess i shall move on.

 

[blueline]

just forget about it. when the girl says it's platonic, end it.

 

[Alchemystic]

blue line, your advice are excellent. Do not misinterpret it as a sarcasm. It is my sincere compliment.

 

[WaterTiger]

The first words out of your mouth should have been:

"Thank GOD! It would be like boffing my sister! So tell me Sis, can you introduce me to your hot friend Angela? Cause I really want to sleep with her!"

Anytime a woman tells you the relationship is platonic, she wants to see other people, or she loves you but isn't IN love with you...you should AGREE WITH HER!

Tell her you are SOOOOO RELIEVED! That you, also, don't find her sexy, want to date hot women & like her as a friend. This will seriously screw with her head that a guy she didn't find "up to her secret standards" finds HER less than amazing!

She will be crawling back as soon as she sees you with another girl!

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

I'm struck by OP's comment of "I was too mushy and she isn't into mush. Typical woman problem."

Umm...no, mush is only a problem when men act mushy. Women love mush, but not from men they are going to get horny for.

Someone get OP a shot of manliness, stat!

OP you just really, really need to dig into SS for a couple weeks. Then, when you're ready, go check out Roissy's blog and prepare to have your MIND BLOWN lol.

 

[ENIGMA16]

Be more open about your intentions. If she knows that you're interested in her sexually and/or are looking for a relationship then she won't friendzone you. Friendzoning is completely and 100% caused by not revealing your intentions and hoping either that she'll just spontaneously decide she loves you, or waiting for the perfect time that never comes.

Be more open and you won't get in the friendzone. Otherwise, this is probably game over with this chick.

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