"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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really need some help right now

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Bigempty said:
i just lost my job today to boot..
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I lost my job at age 25 on my birthday and discovered sosuave that same day. If I didn’t loose it, chances are I’d still be afc.

You are the way you are because you have wrong view of reality and based on that you have wrong perception of yourself.

Basically you are a low life who can not even comprehend what processes and emotions drive you.

It’s a long road.

In 2019 there is alpha high value male mentality. All you have to do is watch youtube, search it for AMS.

Definately read book of pook and dj bible.

I guess you were asking about that particular woman. Forget her. It’s not about women. It’s about you. Focus on you. Something makes you the way you are. Study it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Really not a lot to go on here, but forget about the event, forget about the girl. It’s about you. So there’s 2 possibilities:

  1. You wanted this girl—So why did you push her away?
  2. You didn’t want the girl—So why do you want her after she cuts you off?
Banking with #2. You blew things tf up because you needed to escape. On some level you knew you were out of alignment. Which that’s cool, but why are you backtracking on your choice? You can be almost anything, and you’re fine as long as you are congruent and hold frame.

Right now you seem to be flailing around. Guessing you’re not giving enough attention to your self.

Either way, just play it cool. And don’t get involved with this girl (or probably any girl) until you know what YOU want.
 
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fastlife said:
Really not a lot to go on here, but forget about the event, forget about the girl. It’s about you. So there’s 2 possibilities:

  1. You wanted this girl—So why did you push her away?
  2. You didn’t want the girl—So why do you want her after she cuts you off?
Banking with #2. You blew things tf up because you needed to escape. On some level you knew you were out of alignment. Which that’s cool, but why are you backtracking on your choice? You can be almost anything, and you’re fine as long as you are congruent and hold frame.

Right now you seem to be flailing around. Guessing you’re not giving enough attention to your self.

Either way, just play it cool. And don’t get involved with this girl (or probably any girl) until you know what YOU want.
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not really backtracking...ive let go for the most part, doing great with the new girl but have moments of weakness over this girl like when i posted this thread. i paid good money for this event and have really been looking forward to it. if she shows up, id just like to get opinions on best way to go about it. if she doesnt, even better. but im not gonna cut out and run over her. im gonna pm you
 
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You are desperate, whether you choose to admit it or not, and like I tell many lost souls...

Too many words for a woman you haven't fvcked.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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