Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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really need some help right now

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backseatjuan

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i just lost my job today to boot..
I lost my job at age 25 on my birthday and discovered sosuave that same day. If I didn’t loose it, chances are I’d still be afc.

You are the way you are because you have wrong view of reality and based on that you have wrong perception of yourself.

Basically you are a low life who can not even comprehend what processes and emotions drive you.

It’s a long road.

In 2019 there is alpha high value male mentality. All you have to do is watch youtube, search it for AMS.

Definately read book of pook and dj bible.

I guess you were asking about that particular woman. Forget her. It’s not about women. It’s about you. Focus on you. Something makes you the way you are. Study it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Really not a lot to go on here, but forget about the event, forget about the girl. It’s about you. So there’s 2 possibilities:

  1. You wanted this girl—So why did you push her away?
  2. You didn’t want the girl—So why do you want her after she cuts you off?
Banking with #2. You blew things tf up because you needed to escape. On some level you knew you were out of alignment. Which that’s cool, but why are you backtracking on your choice? You can be almost anything, and you’re fine as long as you are congruent and hold frame.

Right now you seem to be flailing around. Guessing you’re not giving enough attention to your self.

Either way, just play it cool. And don’t get involved with this girl (or probably any girl) until you know what YOU want.
 

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Really not a lot to go on here, but forget about the event, forget about the girl. It’s about you. So there’s 2 possibilities:

  1. You wanted this girl—So why did you push her away?
  2. You didn’t want the girl—So why do you want her after she cuts you off?
Banking with #2. You blew things tf up because you needed to escape. On some level you knew you were out of alignment. Which that’s cool, but why are you backtracking on your choice? You can be almost anything, and you’re fine as long as you are congruent and hold frame.

Right now you seem to be flailing around. Guessing you’re not giving enough attention to your self.

Either way, just play it cool. And don’t get involved with this girl (or probably any girl) until you know what YOU want.
not really backtracking...ive let go for the most part, doing great with the new girl but have moments of weakness over this girl like when i posted this thread. i paid good money for this event and have really been looking forward to it. if she shows up, id just like to get opinions on best way to go about it. if she doesnt, even better. but im not gonna cut out and run over her. im gonna pm you
 

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You are desperate, whether you choose to admit it or not, and like I tell many lost souls...

Too many words for a woman you haven't fvcked.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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