“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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really need some help right now

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backseatjuan

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i just lost my job today to boot..
I lost my job at age 25 on my birthday and discovered sosuave that same day. If I didn’t loose it, chances are I’d still be afc.

You are the way you are because you have wrong view of reality and based on that you have wrong perception of yourself.

Basically you are a low life who can not even comprehend what processes and emotions drive you.

It’s a long road.

In 2019 there is alpha high value male mentality. All you have to do is watch youtube, search it for AMS.

Definately read book of pook and dj bible.

I guess you were asking about that particular woman. Forget her. It’s not about women. It’s about you. Focus on you. Something makes you the way you are. Study it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Really not a lot to go on here, but forget about the event, forget about the girl. It’s about you. So there’s 2 possibilities:

  1. You wanted this girl—So why did you push her away?
  2. You didn’t want the girl—So why do you want her after she cuts you off?
Banking with #2. You blew things tf up because you needed to escape. On some level you knew you were out of alignment. Which that’s cool, but why are you backtracking on your choice? You can be almost anything, and you’re fine as long as you are congruent and hold frame.

Right now you seem to be flailing around. Guessing you’re not giving enough attention to your self.

Either way, just play it cool. And don’t get involved with this girl (or probably any girl) until you know what YOU want.
 

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Really not a lot to go on here, but forget about the event, forget about the girl. It’s about you. So there’s 2 possibilities:

  1. You wanted this girl—So why did you push her away?
  2. You didn’t want the girl—So why do you want her after she cuts you off?
Banking with #2. You blew things tf up because you needed to escape. On some level you knew you were out of alignment. Which that’s cool, but why are you backtracking on your choice? You can be almost anything, and you’re fine as long as you are congruent and hold frame.

Right now you seem to be flailing around. Guessing you’re not giving enough attention to your self.

Either way, just play it cool. And don’t get involved with this girl (or probably any girl) until you know what YOU want.
not really backtracking...ive let go for the most part, doing great with the new girl but have moments of weakness over this girl like when i posted this thread. i paid good money for this event and have really been looking forward to it. if she shows up, id just like to get opinions on best way to go about it. if she doesnt, even better. but im not gonna cut out and run over her. im gonna pm you
 

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You are desperate, whether you choose to admit it or not, and like I tell many lost souls...

Too many words for a woman you haven't fvcked.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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