"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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aix237

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JUST THREATEN TO LEAVE HER IF SHE DOESNT STOP IF YOU REALLY WANT HER TO STOP. A GIRL IVE BEEN DATING HAS DONE THE SAME THING TO ME SHES AN AW AND SHE LIKES THE REACTIONS. DONT SAY SH*T TO HER AND JUST IGNORE NEXT TIME SHE DOES IT. ACTIONS ARE LOUDER THAN WORDS. DONT REWARD HER BY TALKING TO HER IF SHE DOES THAT. ITS JUST LIKE GIVING A DOG A TREAT AFTER SH*TTING ON THE RUG.


*SMART AWS ARE SILENT BUT THE MOST DEADLIEST*
 

Jake-inator

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Ok...

1. Do not confront her!!! She will just come back at you with "Are you jelous?" and you will look really insecure. At which point she will start having doubts about you.

This is not the type of behaviour you want, but you can't go around trying to control everyone. Which brings me to my second point.

2. Start talking to other girls. Don't ever show her that you're jelous of what she is doing. The reason is that even if she wants to hook up with other guys, you'll have your pick of the girls as well.


Confrontation in this situation is the worst thing you can do. You're trying to control her, and she'll see right through it.

You can't control what other people do, but you can only control your own actions.
 

Kaine

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How much maturity can you expect from a 16 year old girl?

I Must be out of touch, I only go as low as 18 nowadays ;)


Kaine
 
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