"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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REALLY need help.Girlfriend with lots of guy friends

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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aix237

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JUST THREATEN TO LEAVE HER IF SHE DOESNT STOP IF YOU REALLY WANT HER TO STOP. A GIRL IVE BEEN DATING HAS DONE THE SAME THING TO ME SHES AN AW AND SHE LIKES THE REACTIONS. DONT SAY SH*T TO HER AND JUST IGNORE NEXT TIME SHE DOES IT. ACTIONS ARE LOUDER THAN WORDS. DONT REWARD HER BY TALKING TO HER IF SHE DOES THAT. ITS JUST LIKE GIVING A DOG A TREAT AFTER SH*TTING ON THE RUG.


*SMART AWS ARE SILENT BUT THE MOST DEADLIEST*
 

Jake-inator

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Ok...

1. Do not confront her!!! She will just come back at you with "Are you jelous?" and you will look really insecure. At which point she will start having doubts about you.

This is not the type of behaviour you want, but you can't go around trying to control everyone. Which brings me to my second point.

2. Start talking to other girls. Don't ever show her that you're jelous of what she is doing. The reason is that even if she wants to hook up with other guys, you'll have your pick of the girls as well.


Confrontation in this situation is the worst thing you can do. You're trying to control her, and she'll see right through it.

You can't control what other people do, but you can only control your own actions.
 

Kaine

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How much maturity can you expect from a 16 year old girl?

I Must be out of touch, I only go as low as 18 nowadays ;)


Kaine
 
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