themanwithnoname
Senior Don Juan
look for another girl.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
REALLY need help.Girlfriend with lots of guy friends
- Thread starter kidman
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
JUST THREATEN TO LEAVE HER IF SHE DOESNT STOP IF YOU REALLY WANT HER TO STOP. A GIRL IVE BEEN DATING HAS DONE THE SAME THING TO ME SHES AN AW AND SHE LIKES THE REACTIONS. DONT SAY SH*T TO HER AND JUST IGNORE NEXT TIME SHE DOES IT. ACTIONS ARE LOUDER THAN WORDS. DONT REWARD HER BY TALKING TO HER IF SHE DOES THAT. ITS JUST LIKE GIVING A DOG A TREAT AFTER SH*TTING ON THE RUG.
*SMART AWS ARE SILENT BUT THE MOST DEADLIEST*
*SMART AWS ARE SILENT BUT THE MOST DEADLIEST*
Jake-inator
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Ok...
1. Do not confront her!!! She will just come back at you with "Are you jelous?" and you will look really insecure. At which point she will start having doubts about you.
This is not the type of behaviour you want, but you can't go around trying to control everyone. Which brings me to my second point.
2. Start talking to other girls. Don't ever show her that you're jelous of what she is doing. The reason is that even if she wants to hook up with other guys, you'll have your pick of the girls as well.
Confrontation in this situation is the worst thing you can do. You're trying to control her, and she'll see right through it.
You can't control what other people do, but you can only control your own actions.
1. Do not confront her!!! She will just come back at you with "Are you jelous?" and you will look really insecure. At which point she will start having doubts about you.
This is not the type of behaviour you want, but you can't go around trying to control everyone. Which brings me to my second point.
2. Start talking to other girls. Don't ever show her that you're jelous of what she is doing. The reason is that even if she wants to hook up with other guys, you'll have your pick of the girls as well.
Confrontation in this situation is the worst thing you can do. You're trying to control her, and she'll see right through it.
You can't control what other people do, but you can only control your own actions.
Kaine
Senior Don Juan
How much maturity can you expect from a 16 year old girl?
I Must be out of touch, I only go as low as 18 nowadays
Kaine
I Must be out of touch, I only go as low as 18 nowadays
Kaine