really need advice from smarter men then me

[Chosen1]

Ok this chick asks me to be friends with her on myspace right. The only problem is I know her. My ex wife used to sleep with her baby daddy. She is friends with my ex on myspace and says she doesn't really talk to her.I'm worried that this might be some type of trick.The thing is the girl lives in Alabama and is coming back to Indiana. She gave me her # down there and everything. this is her page address www.myspace.com/luvmylilaudri. I asked a female I trust very much and she says go with the flow. If this is some trick I don't understand the purpose it's stupid and would be childish. I know I have more problems then most men. I'm about to be 25 and have had very little dating experience. The thing is I have a hard time trusting anyone anymore, any help would be appreciated,thanks.

 

[amoka]

So you think you EX-WIFE is playing some trick on you by setting her up with you? Am I missing something?

 

[Chromeo]

Dont let your ex-wife dictate your decisions.

This chick is a big old single hoosier. I wouldnt even bother, but thats me. Do as you please.

 

[Chosen1]

So you think you EX-WIFE is playing some trick on you by setting her up with you? Am I missing something?

man I don't know,I'm just gonna wacth for da hook I hope she don't ask for any money amoka I'm gonna check out your approach journal.

 

[Plinco]

When in doubt, be vigilant. As Pook would say, trust your gut.

 

[Alien]

Trust your gut...

 

[horaholic]

...but obey your cok.

Seriously, dont put any thought into your ex wife or anything. She has NOTHING to do with any of it, and even if she does, WHO GIVES A FVCK?

 

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

@Chosen1

Please take this constructively. I'm trying to figure out where your head is, homie. (Not to be mean). I went to this girls page and she is all hugged up with this guy (I assume it's her baby's father), and the caption under one of the photos reads, "I love him". Not to mention the graphics: http://c4.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/61/l_7a865d05e681dfd628fa7807c8a01a0b.gif

My dude, you need to step up your game and leave this girl alone. She's below average, looks-wise, has baggage, and has a dude. On top of that, it is generally not a good idea to sleep with women in the same circle, especially if one is your ex. It just seems strange and YES it could be a set up. Regardless of whether this may be a trick, you're spending too much time contemplating whether to get at a mother with baggage...and a dude.

You may want to check out my first book, "From MySpace To My Place" (Here's a clip on what's in the book...contains more free advice: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nnEgKC2Ifos). I discuss why women with baggage and baby-daddy situations can be dangerous and offer tips on how you can step up your game. I also talk about females who live far away. Although she's coming to your town, she's still currently located in another state. Forget her.

Don't "go with your gut". Just run the other way and get at more attractive women with less baggage.

 

[Scars]

You can tell so much by a woman's profile it's ridiculous, you just have to know what to look for.

Looking at her about me a lone, look at the way she types. Misspelled words, horrible grammar, cursing, writes with a DGAF attitude. This girl is an attention wh0re, and not the brightest crayon in the box either.

my names tiffany in case u didnt know

Apparently everybody must know her. Or it's just typical falsified confidence. In any case, she loves attention and validation.

i have an 8 year old daughter(luv u babygirl)i just came out of a 9 year relationship!

Aka, newly single and DTF.

i will always have a special place in my heart for my babydaddy its just some things are not ment to b an thats one of em

Anti-slvt defense to save herself from the people who actually catch on to what she means by her previous statement.

i have three brothers who i love dearly i have 2 neices an a nephew who i love with everything in me! i have just a handful of females that i concider not only my friends but my sisters my main sqeeze would be ASHLEY NICOLE i love u *****

Relates more to men, and has few female friends. Usually a red flag. Is there a reason she doesn't get a long with other females? And Jesus Lord, "main squeeze" i love you b!tch! Lolololol. This just proves her hunger for attention. Girls that write like this are extremely annoying.

im from south bend currently n the south tryin ta start over!!!i got my lil cousin brit to help with that one I LOVE U CUZ

Is she admitting to being a mooch?! And what is she trying to start over from? She "loves" her baby daddy. Why did it end? What happened? What is she running from? Sounds like she developed and quick reputation as a wh0re and is trying to hide from it.

no matter what i know i could talk 2 u about anything an trust u enough to know that it wouldn go no further than u!!!

Again, notice the anti-slvt defense right after. She needs to reassure herself and YOU too that she isn't a ho.

ummm i dont really **** wit females like that. these hoes now days is somethin so crazy DONT TRUST NO *****!

Ahh now it becomes clear. Females don't like her because she is probably fvcking around with their man. Bingo, here is your answer. She would back stab her bestfriend if she had the opportunity and knew she could get away with it. What a keeper.

other than that im a good as person just dont take my kindness for weekness!!!!

Again, reassuring herself that she is a good person. Making up excuses for her actions.

Again,im open to try new things i have a whole life ahead of me!

Aka, DTF.

i know when its all said an done i will meet someone an maybe start over SOMEDAY but until then LOL hit me up cuz im gonna play the game jus like a man would

Aka, hopefully someday she will meet a sucker who her will support her and her baby financially while she is out running around being a ho.

-Scars

 

[SandHawk]

God, I checked out that myspace page... I sure as hell hope you're bringing a harpoon when you're going to tap, because she packs the same amount of fat as a whale.

 

[Chosen1]

@Chosen1

Please take this constructively. I'm trying to figure out where your head is, homie. (Not to be mean). I went to this girls page and she is all hugged up with this guy (I assume it's her baby's father), and the caption under one of the photos reads, "I love him". Not to mention the graphics: http://c4.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/61/l_7a865d05e681dfd628fa7807c8a01a0b.gif

My dude, you need to step up your game and leave this girl alone. She's below average, looks-wise, has baggage, and has a dude. On top of that, it is generally not a good idea to sleep with women in the same circle, especially if one is your ex. It just seems strange and YES it could be a set up. Regardless of whether this may be a trick, you're spending too much time contemplating whether to get at a mother with baggage...and a dude.

You may want to check out my first book, "From MySpace To My Place" (Here's a clip on what's in the book...contains more free advice: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nnEgKC2Ifos). I discuss why women with baggage and baby-daddy situations can be dangerous and offer tips on how you can step up your game. I also talk about females who live far away. Although she's coming to your town, she's still currently located in another state. Forget her.

Don't "go with your gut". Just run the other way and get at more attractive women with less baggage.

I really appreciate the help y'all. I'm check your book out flyness You seem real thanks

 

[Pimp-sicle]

God, I checked out that myspace page... I sure as hell hope you're bringing a harpoon when you're going to tap, because she packs the same amount of fat as a whale.

LMFAO!! Man I hate to sound like a d-ick and judge because to each their own, but damn I was thinking the same thing! I'm already going to hell so fuvk it.





PIMP

 

[sodbuster]

She wants revenge sex-her ex slept with your ex-so she wants to return the favor.question is... do you want to "harpoon" her or not.

I've had it when a girl found out her EX-husband knocked up a girl,she mentioned some little thing,she wanted to talk.... revenge sex[not sure if her ex found out or cared-probably not]