"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Really Loud Snoring

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Is this bad? i never knew i had it until about 7 months ago.

This has been going on for atleast 3 years but no one has ever told me.

Freshman year at college i was working and lived and roomed with my cousin. He never once mentioned it but i found out later that it was so loud that even a pillow over my face didn't help.

sophmore year my roomate used to wear ear plugs, i never really noticed y.

Last year i was having a double date and we ended up at my ex's apartment watching a movie. i fell half asleep and was still conscious i thought.... when i woke up they said i was snoring really loud.... i thought they were joking because i was actually conscious the whole time and heard their conversations.


Later on my ex told me she would have very hard times sleeping at first but eventually got used to it. Then i approached my cuzins and asked them and they said i snore really loud.

will this get better from longer sleep. i generally lack sleep.

Apparently all the people that were close to me didn't mind that it was loud and put up with it, but i hear some people don't like loud snorer's. Anyway to work on this besides possible getting more rest and eating healthier? I'm not doing this for others but more so for myself, since i'd prefer if i didn't snore so loud.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would you like it if the person next to you was snoring really loudly?
 

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People don't tell you cause they don't want you to be embarassed..
 
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