"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Really Loud Snoring

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Is this bad? i never knew i had it until about 7 months ago.

This has been going on for atleast 3 years but no one has ever told me.

Freshman year at college i was working and lived and roomed with my cousin. He never once mentioned it but i found out later that it was so loud that even a pillow over my face didn't help.

sophmore year my roomate used to wear ear plugs, i never really noticed y.

Last year i was having a double date and we ended up at my ex's apartment watching a movie. i fell half asleep and was still conscious i thought.... when i woke up they said i was snoring really loud.... i thought they were joking because i was actually conscious the whole time and heard their conversations.


Later on my ex told me she would have very hard times sleeping at first but eventually got used to it. Then i approached my cuzins and asked them and they said i snore really loud.

will this get better from longer sleep. i generally lack sleep.

Apparently all the people that were close to me didn't mind that it was loud and put up with it, but i hear some people don't like loud snorer's. Anyway to work on this besides possible getting more rest and eating healthier? I'm not doing this for others but more so for myself, since i'd prefer if i didn't snore so loud.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Would you like it if the person next to you was snoring really loudly?
 

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People don't tell you cause they don't want you to be embarassed..
 
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