Ok i asked this girl out awhile ago she said no. But we contineud to flirt alot and stuff. a few nights ago she told me her little sexual fantasies and fetishes. Lets just say she like "painfuL" sex. She likes to be dominated lol. She told me what she likes exactly and crap. And she said stuff like "only if i had a guy who would do that thing". Now is it me, or does she want me to do that to her, without asking me to.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
really kinky chick freaking me out
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Why don't you ask her and find out? None of us are mindreaders, though I'd say the odds aren't good considering she rejected you once before... If she's freaking you out so badly, why are you still pursuing her?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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Mojo604
Senior Don Juan
She obviously wants you to **** her brains out hard. Why tha **** would she say those things? She rejected you because she probably thiks you want a relashionship- and she doesnt want that. She just wants the rough sex.
its true i told her i wanted a relationship, but ill settle for ****ing her, rofl.Originally posted by Mojo604
She obviously wants you to **** her brains out hard. Why tha **** would she say those things? She rejected you because she probably thiks you want a relashionship- and she doesnt want that. She just wants the rough sex.
Originally posted by Mojo604
Im not DJ, or an expert, so those of you who are can correct me on this when I say...
MISTAKE
yeah it was a mistake, but its far in the past now. So its not much of a issue anymore as i dont really say i want a relationship with her anymore.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
BIG mistake......don't be a chump and fall for the *****, thats one of the most painful things a man can do to himself......try to steer back into that i just want freaky sex mode, watch pornos by nacho vidal, that guy knows how to treat a lady
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diablo
Master Don Juan
Perhaps she wants a master to be a slave to. She might be really deep into that...
I wouldn't advise it. The "rough stuff" should only be something you get into with someone you know and trust. For all you know this woman might have been abused or raped in the past and holds all men responsible. There are some women who will entrap men into doing something that they can later use to accuse them of hurting them to get attention or just feel like a victim.
Run away as fast as you can...
Run away as fast as you can...
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Originally posted by Wyldfire
psst...I'm actually a "chick"...but you can call me "dude" if you wanna.
were both in highschool, shes straight A student and everything so its wierd. I can imagine going. Yes officer, im 18, shes 16, she has bruisers on her, but she told me to do it. Also that wasnt really rape she told me to fake it. haha god.
Dapper Swindler
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On second thought, since she's only 16, this may be something she fantasizes about as teenage girls tend to fantasize, but not something she actually wants to do.
i'm not into sadomaso, but if i were, i would never do it with a younger girl (i'd want a girl over 25, at least, better if she's 30-35). plus, i could never do that sort of thing with a woman i personally know... it'd be strange...
PLUS, when a 16 year old girl fantasizes about sadomaso, it's just that. a fantasy. i don't suggest that you should propose it to her, unless you can make it appear as a joke... meaning that you shouldn't be the one to bring up the topic... if you are talkin' about that, it's ok to crack something on the line of:
"if u wanna try, i could teach you..." with a light smirk on your face, so that she's not capable of gettin' if u r jokin' or not
otherwise, shut the hell up or the whole school will have an image of you with a pair of bare-butt leather pants with something in latex in your hands... not too good for your reputation, man
if by hard stuff u just mean anal sex, that's ok... i'm ANALizing my 16 yr old girlfriend almost every day
PLUS, when a 16 year old girl fantasizes about sadomaso, it's just that. a fantasy. i don't suggest that you should propose it to her, unless you can make it appear as a joke... meaning that you shouldn't be the one to bring up the topic... if you are talkin' about that, it's ok to crack something on the line of:
"if u wanna try, i could teach you..." with a light smirk on your face, so that she's not capable of gettin' if u r jokin' or not
otherwise, shut the hell up or the whole school will have an image of you with a pair of bare-butt leather pants with something in latex in your hands... not too good for your reputation, man
if by hard stuff u just mean anal sex, that's ok... i'm ANALizing my 16 yr old girlfriend almost every day