im out at the bars with my friends. I go to this one bar where me and my ex would always go. Its been a year since weve broken up and havent seen her i thought she left town a long time ago. So tonight i had a strange feeling and was like fvck im going to see her tonight and i havent thought that in months. i havent seen her in 3 months. I go to the bar and i hear a "uh oh" i glance out of the corner of my eye and see her friend then i see her. i didnt say anything or look over there. but i saw her looking at me then i immediatley got on my phone and left. she saw me guaranteed. so im fvcked up by the end of the night riding home and decide to send her a text. i say "i dont know why im talking to you right now i know i shouldnt but i just wanted to let you know that i noticed you noticing at me at the suite (name of bar). i was laughing cause i took that from will smith in the fresh prince of bel air show. i think it was funny and ****y for sure. but was it a dumb move? honestly i dont really care anyways cause she packed on some pounds in the face anyways.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
really dumb move or not
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