im out at the bars with my friends. I go to this one bar where me and my ex would always go. Its been a year since weve broken up and havent seen her i thought she left town a long time ago. So tonight i had a strange feeling and was like fvck im going to see her tonight and i havent thought that in months. i havent seen her in 3 months. I go to the bar and i hear a "uh oh" i glance out of the corner of my eye and see her friend then i see her. i didnt say anything or look over there. but i saw her looking at me then i immediatley got on my phone and left. she saw me guaranteed. so im fvcked up by the end of the night riding home and decide to send her a text. i say "i dont know why im talking to you right now i know i shouldnt but i just wanted to let you know that i noticed you noticing at me at the suite (name of bar). i was laughing cause i took that from will smith in the fresh prince of bel air show. i think it was funny and ****y for sure. but was it a dumb move? honestly i dont really care anyways cause she packed on some pounds in the face anyways.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
really dumb move or not
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