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Really cute quiet girl

Westwind

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Ok i wanted to redo this thread, fix my spelling. Get some fresh advice.

So i have this very attractive girl in my class that doesn't really talk much. Even when i make jokes she doesn't laugh. Like everyone else in class does, even the teacher. But she remains silent

Can i have some advice on what to do? Anything i should know about quiet hotties?

Just approach her the same? Walk up to her and say hi? or maybe tap her on the shoulder?

Whatever you guys got for me would be much appreciated.
 

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Brighty

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Westwind said:
Just approach her the same? Walk up to her and say hi? or maybe tap her on the shoulder?
Uhh... bingo?


I really doubt you needed our help for you to come to that conclusion. Just tap her on the shoulder or approach her and start a conversation... Shes a human being just like everyone else, regardless of if shes quiet or not.
 

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you: hi, you're quiet.
me: huh?
you: i said you're quiet... you need to talk more :)

i have done this before and instead of the "huh?" i actually got a very excited "haha i know! i just blah blah blah." serious.. the girl turned out to be a big headache.
 
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