"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Really cute quiet girl

Westwind

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Ok i wanted to redo this thread, fix my spelling. Get some fresh advice.

So i have this very attractive girl in my class that doesn't really talk much. Even when i make jokes she doesn't laugh. Like everyone else in class does, even the teacher. But she remains silent

Can i have some advice on what to do? Anything i should know about quiet hotties?

Just approach her the same? Walk up to her and say hi? or maybe tap her on the shoulder?

Whatever you guys got for me would be much appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Brighty

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Westwind said:
Just approach her the same? Walk up to her and say hi? or maybe tap her on the shoulder?
Uhh... bingo?


I really doubt you needed our help for you to come to that conclusion. Just tap her on the shoulder or approach her and start a conversation... Shes a human being just like everyone else, regardless of if shes quiet or not.
 

tony-montana

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you: hi, you're quiet.
me: huh?
you: i said you're quiet... you need to talk more :)

i have done this before and instead of the "huh?" i actually got a very excited "haha i know! i just blah blah blah." serious.. the girl turned out to be a big headache.
 
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