"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reality TV----The Contender (season 1)

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The Contender

I just saw the first episode. While I enjoyed it a lot, I was surprised that Alphoso beat Peter. Personally, I thought he was going to get his head handed to him after seeing him take that beating in the second round. For those on this board who know a little more about boxing, what do y'all think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alfonso had a better mindset going into the fight. You can see his confidence throughout the show.

Peter was kind of doubting himself when he spoke with his wife the night before.
 

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There is a difference between an official boxing match and this.

There are 12 rounds in the official boxing match and therefore there is a different kind of mindset and strategy that is applied which will be different then "The Contender" 5 rounds match. These boxers are not used to fight such a short match and therefore they had to adopt to a different strategy.

I saw the fight as well and they were even up until the 5th round when Alphonso beat Peter. I do believe that Peter being the better fighter, more experienced fighter and a stronger fighter would have beaten Alphonso in an official 12 round bout.
 

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Havent seen it.

12 rounds are only fought when a title is at stake.

Other than that, it starts at 4 rounders, goes to 6, 8, 10 then 12 rounds (when fought for a championship). Thus, these fighters, as inexperienced as they are, would not be fighting 12 rounds antime soon in the professional ranks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tonight was of the hook. I liked manny from scarface.
 

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Tonight was very good. Im glad the guy from the west beat that ****y guy. On a sidenote....his girlfriend was hot as hell.
 

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Cant believe that after the second round, Peter didnt jusst kick his ass.

who does everybody tip to win?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yeah the pretty boy lost. I LOVED it. It was kinda funny though cuz after he lost he went to the bathroom and he was like "damn im still pretty not a stratch on my face" One conceited mother if you ask me.
 

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im a week behind, being from the UK so i suggest we stop this thread lol
 

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Originally posted by InsidiousNstinct
yeah the pretty boy lost. I LOVED it. It was kinda funny though cuz after he lost he went to the bathroom and he was like "damn im still pretty not a stratch on my face" One conceited mother if you ask me.
But that's the personality you need to have in life. Because if YOU don't believe in yourself then nobody is either!;)
 

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Does anybody watch this anymore???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Watched it last night, Alphonso wins again. I am really impressed by him. While a lot of the other fighters seem to be a lot more physical, he seems to have a lot more skill in the ring.
 
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