"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Reality of Nexting

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It is true that when the chick drops you, you have not dropped her. You can next her by not caring. That is the actual nexting, realizing that there are many more women and that it is her loss, even if she doesn't know it, or never will. This says nothing about her mistake of dropping a great guy, only about the true PUA's acception of such. Accepting is is not liking it, it is realizing and in this case, not caring.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I`m not getting worked up over anything. You can agree or disagree with me. But when you have people coming up in here with a defense mode. What I had said must have sparked some emotional scars on the inside. I`m not saying it is even you or anybody else. If what I say does not pertain to you , sh(i)t you have nothing to worry about.
LOL obviously even bringing up this subject just tells us that YOU brought up some emotional scars of you're own. You're just trying to stir up sh!t to resolve whatever issue you have.

Nexting could mean anything, the debate could go on forever because everyone has diffrent view on nexting. If you really are a MAN, you would not have this mindset now would you?
 
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