Reality Check Tonight

[Baruch]

Well, Ill be heading out to a party tonight where I dont know anyone but a female friend of mine who invited me. She is a UB, but I am sure there will be at least some HB7-9's that I can mack on.

Since I have been and rAFC for a long time, and only in the past couple of weeks actually doing some educating readings, I will make this as a reminded to myself of what to do at the party to conquer the HB's attentionS.

1. Decent clothes - its a house party, just a dark sweatshirt with jeans and a black shoes.

2. Eye contact - Look everyone in the eyes, say hi, strike up a convo about random ****. Shake hands, introduce myself and keep looking them in the eyes (in a non-psychotic way)

3. Social - This is the second part of #2 above. Be social. Do not affraid to speak to people, join groups, better even make your own group and talk about something funny\interesting. be the life of the party, act as I AM hosting this event and always have some fancy **** to pull out of my sleeve.

4. 3 Seconds - Spot a hottie. No hesitation, grab my gigantic balls and say "Hi".

5. C&F - Tease them. Be playful and make them laugh. DO NOT INSULT, just ****y and funny, ****y and funny.

6. Make them want more - When I do get her interested, I will leave her there alone and strike up a convo elsewhere. Leave her in suspense.

7. Read body language - Its obvious what I have to do here.

I will submit my results later, now I have to run...

 

[DJDamage]

If you have to do a list before you leave the house, you have already failed. You are putting too much pressure on yourself to succedd, hopefully the alcohol will loosen you up and you will be thinking to just have fun and not trying to hook up with a hot chick.

I noticed I tend to fail when I expect to get a number while I succedd when getting a number is the last thing in my head.

 

[Unbridled_1]

I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing to go over a list, because that will help you progress to the point when you won't have to go over a list before you go to a party. It will eventually become second nature.

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Just go out there and have fun. Getting numbers and talking to the hos is part of the debauchery

 

[Baruch]

here is what happened.

I think my UB friend tried to decieve me! I went to the party with my best friend (who happends to be a natural alpha). The party was lame, the only girls that were there was my UB friend, her HB5 and another UB that lived in the house with her bf.

I got the UB wrapped aroound my finger, no matter what I do, she is all over me. She thinks she is sexy and she acts\dresses like it, i think she is fat and has a nasty face. So I wouldnt **** her. I introduced myself to her HB5(nice bod, she would be HB6.5 if she wore an eyliner and contacts), whom I wasnt intersted in, but thought it would be nice just to practicce on her. She instantly was thrilled to talk to me. Anyways, I struck a quick convo with her, then headed to the DJ tables to learn how to spin. After I smoked a bowl of some red hair weed, I became an instant AFC again and just became quiet. So I tried to down as many beers as I could to sober the **** up.

At the poker table we tought the girls how to play Texas Hold'em. Anyways, the HB5 was bankin all the money so I started saying how she must be a pro and lied about never playing before. Called her a hustler and all that ****. After a little while, when she had most of everyones money, she startted to negative hit me hardcore for betting low. I was shocked at how a little game of poker boosted her confidence and made her open her mouth more with some major ****iness. I negativ hit her back and said how she is only winning thanks to me because I gave her an advice ("Use yor jewish mind whever you apply money to something...) and she started bankin all the money right after that. lol.

At the end when Iwas leaving, she gave me a hug, I knew I couldve closed her, but I wasnt interested and I really dont want to ruin UBs and HB5's friendship since UB really likes me.

Later on that night when I knew I couldnt go home because my roomate (uncle) was having some kind of freaky time with his friends. I went to Denny's at 1am to grab a meal.

I messaged a female friend of mine whom I try to mack on, ive been in the friends zone for 3-4 years now. At one point she was interested in me, I didnt realize it then, but I do know it now. How she acted around me, how she wanted me to always dance with her at parties and always complimented me, but I igored it and treated her like a sis. Now, she is being a complete ***** to me! Maybe its due to the fact that her parents tried to hook her up with me, or maybe because I never showed any interest in her and she just got annoyed. I dont know. But I am not tolerating her BS. Just want to reverse it.

I text messaged her at 1am:

me: Hi
her: Hi
me: that was fast! whats up?

*LONG PAUSE* (she didnt reply so I message her again)

me: how rude!

her: you know what. I am tired of you telling me that I am rude all the damn time. I know you are joking, but it really pisses me off that you say it to me for no reason

me: after your "hi" I replied with "whats up" I was just teasing you, relax.

her: Its late at night...(then she said some other ****, for some reason the messages arent saved)

me: well, if I woke you up, you shouldve not replied back and just tossed the phone somewhere.

her: I was watching TV, now I am in bed trying to fall asleep. Please do not reply to this.

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A ***** fit at her best. Tonight I am going to her cousins party (my best friend) hopefully she wont be there, if she will and acts like a *****, I think I will take her to the side and tell her to stop acting like a little girl, and if she continues this BS, then we better of just not talkin to each other. (walk off)

She is a trip.

 

[luv_ya_amj]

Pffft.

And you wonder why she's not responding to your crap... (read your post!...)

Keep on LOOOOKIN'!

 

[Fenderules]

i would not take **** from that *****. she is giving you **** and you didnt do anything wrong. your acting afc. dont put up with that **** or she will do it to you all the time!

 

[luv_ya_amj]

Pffft.

And you wonder why she's not responding to your crap... (read your post!...)

 

[Fenderules]

lol

 

[BLUEox117]

So I tried to down as many beers as I could to sober the **** up.

 

[Fenderules]

how many beers did you have? you need at least 8 pints to be able to drive functionally!

 

[Unbridled_1]

I think you just hijacked your own thread.

 

[Fenderules]

yeah pretty much

 

[DJDamage]

As I said from my pervious response, you fantasized about being a Don Juan by making the list and in the end you woke up to the reality that the party sucks, no girls are hitting on you and you are just drinking to mask your insecurities which didn't help by the way.

Go do the bootcamp and keep reading the DJ Bible or something because you are still AFC that think dressing and acting like a don juan will get you chicks. However that is just a persona and if its not part of your true self everyone will know pretty fast how fake you are and that you are trying way to hard.

If you ever go to a party and you see that it sucks then only stick around for a bit and then leave. Don't hang out for the heck of it, you should always have an exist plan or option number 2 in case something will turn bad like this party.

A ***** fit at her best. Tonight I am going to her cousins party (my best friend) hopefully she wont be there, if she will and acts like a *****, I think I will take her to the side and tell her to stop acting like a little girl, and if she continues this BS, then we better of just not talkin to each other. (walk off)

She is a trip.

You showed another immature example of how to handle things. First of all that chick only considers you a friend and nothing else, so why are you giving her negative hits that sound more like insults then anything else, News Flash: YOU ARE BEING AN A$$hole!

Secondly, she is starting not to like you already, so instead of letting it go and either act indifference and be positive and not let her attitude affect you, you are doing the exact opposite you are planning to be like a parent and teach her a lesson??!! You are only upset because you can't mack this chick and instead of accepting it and moving on, you act like a child yourself and twisting the drama even farther.

Stop being in denial and grow up and become a true Don Juan and not a boy. Keep that as your New Years resolution.

 

[Fenderules]

Im the driver now when we go clubbing so i cant drink. it works! i feel actually better not drinking cause i am in full control and if im grinding with a chick my boner is rock hard as apposed to floppy and numb when im drunk

 

[Baruch]

Originally posted by DJDamage
As I said from my pervious response, you fantasized about being a Don Juan by making the list and in the end you woke up to the reality that the party sucks, no girls are hitting on you and you are just drinking to mask your insecurities which didn't help by the way.

Go do the bootcamp and keep reading the DJ Bible or something because you are still AFC that think dressing and acting like a don juan will get you chicks. However that is just a persona and if its not part of your true self everyone will know pretty fast how fake you are and that you are trying way to hard.

If you ever go to a party and you see that it sucks then only stick around for a bit and then leave. Don't hang out for the heck of it, you should always have an exist plan or option number 2 in case something will turn bad like this party.



You showed another immature example of how to handle things. First of all that chick only considers you a friend and nothing else, so why are you giving her negative hits that sound more like insults then anything else, News Flash: YOU ARE BEING AN A$$hole!

Secondly, she is starting not to like you already, so instead of letting it go and either act indifference and be positive and not let her attitude affect you, you are doing the exact opposite you are planning to be like a parent and teach her a lesson??!! You are only upset because you can't mack this chick and instead of accepting it and moving on, you act like a child yourself and twisting the drama even farther.

Stop being in denial and grow up and become a true Don Juan and not a boy. Keep that as your New Years resolution.

First, I didnt make that list to pretend that I was a DJ. I made that list to keep the things I am practicing in mind. Observe the situation and others behaviour. Two girls were hitting on me, the thing is I didnt want anything to do with them. I tried to down more drinks after I smoked two bowls, I become paranoid when I smoke and dont talk alot. So I drank more. DJdamage, you are jumping into many conclusions here.

i would not take **** from that *****. she is giving you **** and you didnt do anything wrong. your acting afc. dont put up with that **** or she will do it to you all the time!

I do not take any **** from her. The day after I saw her at the party, was compltly indeffrent to her until I was tellin her cousin something and she butted in the convo and said "so, is this supposed to be funny what you're about to tell?"

I replied: "um, I don't think anyone invited you into this conversation" (with a smile)

After that, she was alot nicer and tried to throw in a few words to get my attention when I was playing poker with my friends. (I was the winner that night. made 60$)

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Fenderules
how many beers did you have? you need at least 8 pints to be able to drive functionally!

How many does it take to make a "5" an "HB"? LOL

 

[Craig Reeves]

I text messaged her at 1am:

me: Hi
her: Hi
me: that was fast! whats up?

*LONG PAUSE* (she didnt reply so I message her again)

me: how rude!

her: you know what. I am tired of you telling me that I am rude all the damn time. I know you are joking, but it really pisses me off that you say it to me for no reason

me: after your "hi" I replied with "whats up" I was just teasing you, relax.

her: Its late at night...(then she said some other ****, for some reason the messages arent saved)

me: well, if I woke you up, you shouldve not replied back and just tossed the phone somewhere.

her: I was watching TV, now I am in bed trying to fall asleep. Please do not reply to this.

First off, what on earth are you doing text messaging a girl at 1 am? You are making yourself out to be some kind of stalker or something like that. It's sometimes OK to IM a girl at that time, but to text her or call her is a BIG-TIME NO-NO! The only times to call a girl is between 7 and 10 pm. Period. Any other time she'll probably start feeling as if you are a desperate loser who's dying for female attention.

And there's no use at all in text messaging women anyway unless it's about a date that you've planned and you need to reschedule it, that's IT. Not to try and flirt or mack on her - THAT should be done in person and in person ONLY. My God, man, I would seriously advise you to refer to the DJ Bible. You're doing all kinds of things wrong.

 

[DjDreamer]

Good to know I'm not the only one that thinks IM lovey doveyness is a waste of time.