There's a woman I'd like to seduce, she's been a friend for about 10 years and up till now I never really considered her for dating. I only talk to her about once every 4-6 months, so it's not like I'm part of her "nice guy" harem. She has no harem.
This woman is probably an HB8 without makeup. She doesn't wear makeup, though she does groom herself, so that's not a problem. She's highly intelligent, we met in college, and very analytical. Her personality type is INTP, which is sort of rare for women.
The major thing is she has no experience. I know for a fact that she's never dated, nor consequently had sex. When I initially met her, she was very shy, and I was her only friend. When I moved away, she still only tended to have one friend at a time. In the last few years, I've seen evidence that she's come out of her shell and become more social. She does have emotions, though like male INTPs, she's not that emotional, and she has a keen sense of humor.
When I say she's analytical, I'll give an example. She's a biologist, and we were in a pet store. I started looking at some puppies wrestling with each other, and she commented that they were competing to be the alpha and establish dominance. Your typical woman would say, "OH, how cute!!!"
I wonder if a woman like this is a realistic target. I like her because she's really nice, and doesn't have much of a temper. She's one of the few women on my very short "I'd marry her" list.
Also, if the DJ theory is correct, I'd have to be more stoic than her, and I'm an ENTP, which is a naturally more emotional type. It's funny that I did an experiment once where I pretended to be hypermacho, and she laughed and played along. She sort of responded to it, so it's possible that DJ technique might work.
Any thoughts?
This woman is probably an HB8 without makeup. She doesn't wear makeup, though she does groom herself, so that's not a problem. She's highly intelligent, we met in college, and very analytical. Her personality type is INTP, which is sort of rare for women.
The major thing is she has no experience. I know for a fact that she's never dated, nor consequently had sex. When I initially met her, she was very shy, and I was her only friend. When I moved away, she still only tended to have one friend at a time. In the last few years, I've seen evidence that she's come out of her shell and become more social. She does have emotions, though like male INTPs, she's not that emotional, and she has a keen sense of humor.
When I say she's analytical, I'll give an example. She's a biologist, and we were in a pet store. I started looking at some puppies wrestling with each other, and she commented that they were competing to be the alpha and establish dominance. Your typical woman would say, "OH, how cute!!!"
I wonder if a woman like this is a realistic target. I like her because she's really nice, and doesn't have much of a temper. She's one of the few women on my very short "I'd marry her" list.
Also, if the DJ theory is correct, I'd have to be more stoic than her, and I'm an ENTP, which is a naturally more emotional type. It's funny that I did an experiment once where I pretended to be hypermacho, and she laughed and played along. She sort of responded to it, so it's possible that DJ technique might work.
Any thoughts?
