"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey I’m in a relationship and this isn’t some 16 year old relationship. I mean I’m 21 and I like this girl. The one thing I don’t like is I feel like she doesn’t show enough affection I’m thinking of just asking her to give more affection because that’s what I’d like. What you guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rob23 said:
Hey I’m in a relationship and this isn’t some 16 year old relationship. I mean I’m 21 and I like this girl. The one thing I don’t like is I feel like she doesn’t show enough affection I’m thinking of just asking her to give more affection because that’s what I’d like. What you guys think?
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Heck yeah. that's an option... tell her. BUT, I wouldn't recommend telling her "she's not affectionate enough" except as a last resort.

One way to go about it is be more subtle. You can make her feel great when she IS affectionate with you. Complimenting her on occasion can be a good thing.
 
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thats what relationships is all about, communication. if you're not happy about something that has to do with you guys, then tell her!!! shell appreciate it.
 
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2 totally different approaches keep the advice coming i can use alll of it right now
 
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You know what, some women are practical and don't like the mushy stuff you'd see on TV. But how about doing nice little things for her? Or have you thought about cuddling more? If you want affection, that's the best way for a woman to feel more comfortable around you to show feelings.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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