"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rob23

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Hey I’m in a relationship and this isn’t some 16 year old relationship. I mean I’m 21 and I like this girl. The one thing I don’t like is I feel like she doesn’t show enough affection I’m thinking of just asking her to give more affection because that’s what I’d like. What you guys think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mental

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rob23 said:
Hey I’m in a relationship and this isn’t some 16 year old relationship. I mean I’m 21 and I like this girl. The one thing I don’t like is I feel like she doesn’t show enough affection I’m thinking of just asking her to give more affection because that’s what I’d like. What you guys think?

Heck yeah. that's an option... tell her. BUT, I wouldn't recommend telling her "she's not affectionate enough" except as a last resort.

One way to go about it is be more subtle. You can make her feel great when she IS affectionate with you. Complimenting her on occasion can be a good thing.
 

hbxdoode

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thats what relationships is all about, communication. if you're not happy about something that has to do with you guys, then tell her!!! shell appreciate it.
 

rob23

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2 totally different approaches keep the advice coming i can use alll of it right now
 

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You know what, some women are practical and don't like the mushy stuff you'd see on TV. But how about doing nice little things for her? Or have you thought about cuddling more? If you want affection, that's the best way for a woman to feel more comfortable around you to show feelings.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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