"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Real world examples of ice cold approaches.

Eighth Passenger

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If you made a cold approach within the last month, post your techniques and results. I know many AFCs, newbies, and DJs-in-training are tired of readings tips after tips but no real world examples. I think tips only help a little bit.

I'm gonna try to some cold approaching tomorrow. I will post my results this week.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Doesn't take a whole lot, really. Opened an HB8.5 with "sup pinky" the other day cuz she was wearing a pink top :) She liked it so much that she mentioned it like 15 minutes later when i forgot all about it.
 

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Originally posted by Krassus
Doesn't take a whole lot, really. Opened an HB8.5 with "sup pinky" the other day cuz she was wearing a pink top :) She liked it so much that she mentioned it like 15 minutes later when i forgot all about it.
That's cool. I tried a funny opener the other day and it worked well.
 

So pimp its scary

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What you say is not NEARLY as important as HOW you say it... you could train a monkey to spit game with the scripts... so to speak, but it takes the real deal to be able to say the lines and have them work consistently.

For example, I was shocked for years how this introduction got my friend laid. We were stumbling home at like 4am, two good friends of mine and myself, when one of my buddies sees this cute looking girl.

Him: Yooooo BIiiitch!
her: who mee?
him: YAAAAaaaa yooou! Come here!
her: okie. *comes*

Then they had a conversation, where my drunk buddy just straight macked this girl and brought her home so drunk that he couldn't walk straight.

Like I said, at the time I was completely amazed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So true.. i have a mate who really lacks da know how when it comes to "snaring da rabbit". He tries all da lines but no joy.. i laugh cos the only thing he can pull is a muscle.lol.

I find that the best way of doing it is to believe what u say and be genuine. The most successful approach i have used is " Hi, How r u ?" and make conversation from there........... boring but true
 

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Heres one from the last month. Im still seeing her.

Was walking past restuarant going to another store and looked in and saw HB7 with tiny little butt waiting tables. Decided I would try to pick her up. Went in and sat in her section. Made a few jokes when she took my order. She wasn't too friendly (later found out she was having a bad day). Anyways had nothing to lose so I asked for her number when I paid for my meal. She gave it to me with no hesitation. I called a few days later and met her at a local park. Ended up making out with her. Said I had to go and walked her to her car. Called a few days later and ended having sex. Been with her ever since.
 

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Originally posted by absolutezero
Heres one from the last month. Im still seeing her.

Was walking past restuarant going to another store and looked in and saw HB7 with tiny little butt waiting tables. Decided I would try to pick her up. Went in and sat in her section. Made a few jokes when she took my order. She wasn't too friendly (later found out she was having a bad day). Anyways had nothing to lose so I asked for her number when I paid for my meal. She gave it to me with no hesitation. I called a few days later and met her at a local park. Ended up making out with her. Said I had to go and walked her to her car. Called a few days later and ended having sex. Been with her ever since.
^^ This is your first post EVER ?


:rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Here's one from last night.

Walked up to a group of 3 girls and 2 blokes, approaching a group this big is something I'd NEVER have done before I found this forum.

"Hey, you've got a big group so we're gonna come and join the party"

Ended up getting a number. :)
 

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Originally posted by bootlegger
^^ This is your first post EVER ?


:rolleyes:
As opposed to "how do i get this girl to like me?" His first post was a lay report, how fvckin cool is that!
 

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A drunk approach from years ago that worked and I wasn't sure why until I found this site- I wasn't sure why a lot of what I did worked until I found this site.

I was standing with my buddy and a HB8 walks by- I say "hey, get back here!" she immediatley turns around and walks straight back to me- my buddy is laughing by this time- I then say "how dare you walk right past me like that and not even have the common curtousy to introduce yourself!" at this point she says "Sorry, my names---" I say "great now see how easy that was?" she smiles and says "you never told me your name?"
It went well from there. She did mention later that when I told her to get back here she almost felt like she was in trouble!
 

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I am going to keep posting my college first couple of weeks at college, only as for reference for other people.

It is a real world example of how things really work, and how I operate. It works for me, so if you think you can do it, try....

For more info, just pm me.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=58543
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Me: Nice shoes, wanna fvck?

Girl: Hell no



One of these days, that's going to work.
 

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other day at the library, I see a hb8 with a shirt that says on the back "Perfect by natural selection" I went up to her and was like "soo ur perfect by selection hey?" then she got all embarassed and explained how she nomrally didnt wear the shirt in public and how she had gotten to from a sorority or somtin like that ect. . .
 
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