Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Hey Dash, out of curiosity, do you have any other women in the rotation?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
REAL tough one, expert DJ opinions needed
- Thread starter Dash Riprock
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Does no one else see the contradiction here? She doesn't allow you to have sex with her, which is the natural and only progression, but then she allows you to lick her, which is an unnatural progression and act!!!
And then she says, "I don't know you well enough", HUH?????? So then why is she naked???? What else is there to know? She has given you her all by disrobing - what else is there to give??? The penis belongs in the vagina and NOT your tongue - she is controlling you and you are happily following along - this is a no-no!!!!! You have lost power in her eyes!! Don't lick her anymore - let her cat do that!!!
And then she says, "I don't know you well enough", HUH?????? So then why is she naked???? What else is there to know? She has given you her all by disrobing - what else is there to give??? The penis belongs in the vagina and NOT your tongue - she is controlling you and you are happily following along - this is a no-no!!!!! You have lost power in her eyes!! Don't lick her anymore - let her cat do that!!!
You can always tell the ones who've either never watched the Discovery Channel, or didn't pay attention very well. Not only does that happen in nature, but there's even a biological and practical purpose for doing so.Last Man Standing said:
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Not right now--didn't work out--one was recently sent down to AAA. I have two (phone) Number closes (one chick is 21-lol). Not sure if I'll follow up yet. I'm thinking of bringing one more in.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Nice. Keep up the scouting.Dash Riprock said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Just wanted to revive the thread to mention my appreciation for the fine advice given. All are very true, depending on what applies. I like the comment about condoms. It's good to have a real goal for DJing: to get a real LTR who deserves giving it the real, natural way.