Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Hey Dash, out of curiosity, do you have any other women in the rotation?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
REAL tough one, expert DJ opinions needed
- Thread starter Dash Riprock
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Does no one else see the contradiction here? She doesn't allow you to have sex with her, which is the natural and only progression, but then she allows you to lick her, which is an unnatural progression and act!!!
And then she says, "I don't know you well enough", HUH?????? So then why is she naked???? What else is there to know? She has given you her all by disrobing - what else is there to give??? The penis belongs in the vagina and NOT your tongue - she is controlling you and you are happily following along - this is a no-no!!!!! You have lost power in her eyes!! Don't lick her anymore - let her cat do that!!!
And then she says, "I don't know you well enough", HUH?????? So then why is she naked???? What else is there to know? She has given you her all by disrobing - what else is there to give??? The penis belongs in the vagina and NOT your tongue - she is controlling you and you are happily following along - this is a no-no!!!!! You have lost power in her eyes!! Don't lick her anymore - let her cat do that!!!
You can always tell the ones who've either never watched the Discovery Channel, or didn't pay attention very well. Not only does that happen in nature, but there's even a biological and practical purpose for doing so.Last Man Standing said:
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Not right now--didn't work out--one was recently sent down to AAA. I have two (phone) Number closes (one chick is 21-lol). Not sure if I'll follow up yet. I'm thinking of bringing one more in.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Nice. Keep up the scouting.Dash Riprock said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Just wanted to revive the thread to mention my appreciation for the fine advice given. All are very true, depending on what applies. I like the comment about condoms. It's good to have a real goal for DJing: to get a real LTR who deserves giving it the real, natural way.