Real time seduction

[Jeffrey12]

Hi guys,

I thought I'd have a real time thread that represents my interactions with women. Some successful some not so successful. The reason why I've done this is so I can show you guys what works for me and what mistakes I've made along the way.

Bit of information at me. I'm around 5'5", lean, intelligent and tanned. I've realised from a young age that because of my lack of height lol, which we all know is probably the most attractive feature for a man to have, I've had to adapt and work on my sense of humour and personality. I haven't got the pretty boy looks but have more of the alpha male looks. Women tend to like this based on my past experience. I've dated numerous women that are taller and once the the potential height issues are put away all runs smoothly. I tend to not take myself seriously and kind of take the piss out of my height early on ish as a joke so I show a bit of confidence within myself to not care about it.

One issue that I do have with women is, I'm a one trick pony! When it comes to a one shoot kill (finding a girl and bedding her asap) I do that fantastically. This year I've slept with 20 or so women. All 5 and above! At present I'm sleeping with 2 different women on a weekly or every other week basis, in effect they're both friends with benefits. To keep yourself mentally stable during these times its paramount to always stay in the game and be on the look out for other women and not get oneitus..

This is easier said than done though. At present I've met this hot chick who's an 8 out of 10. We're both attracted to each other have been on a date and planned to meet next week. We haven't slept with each other as of yet. Work in progress haha. She seems like potential long term relationship material but only time will tell.

My game (I'm open to critism so feel free to tell me any prOlems):

I'm always polite but not too polite..
I'm always energetic and spontaneous
I'm quite a touchy person so I will always randomly touch just to increase the connection

One thing I do need to improve is my messaging game. I mean I can hold a conversation, be funny, etc but one thing I don't want to be doing is being brutal like some on this board where they say only message to arrange dates etc but I don't also don't want to talk to much to the point where they lose interest

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

I'm also 5.5'' , how you deal with your shortness ? I'm handsome and fit but being short destroys my confidence so much ... I would feel taller girl would be deep inside ashamed to show with me in public and with their friends because you are "inferior" in the eyes of society.

 

[marmel75]

No one can destroy your confidence, as that comes from within. The only person who can destroy your confidence is YOU.


You decide what mentally bothers you or doesn't bother you. You decide how you allow others opinions to effect you. In reality its your perception of things that causes you problems, not necessarily the way things really are, but the way you believe them to be.

And why is this? Because you have been conditioned since the time you were little to believe in certain things without questioning them or just accept them as being fact when they may not necessarily be.

You have the ability to change your reality to one that suits you, not one you simply exist in.

 

[Jeffrey12]

I just get on with it. I mean there's things in life you can change and things in life you can't. I make sure that I'm well dressed, fit and have a personality larger than life. 75% of attraction is mental and only 25% is physical. Us men think women are built like us and that isn't the case. We think with our ****s all the time whereas women need that much more stimulation mentally. Play with their mind and their feelings. This can only happen once there's an initial level of attraction. If there's no attraction mind games just don't work.

Anyone got tips on the messaging front. I like being in communication with women and maintain a good flow of laughs through messaging. What's too much and what's too little? What's the do's and don'ts? As I said earlier I don't want to be brutal and just respond and only use messaging for dates with this chick. With all other women it's fine but mainly it's not in my nature or game to be like that.