"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dunno if you guys have ever come across this guy. http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/bootcamps.asp

He basically teaches all of the DJ rules and everything and just changes some of the names... chump becomes Chode... etc.

Anyways, this isn't some advertisement for the product. His "Blueprint" videos are easy to obtain (you know how). I find that they were more helpful than any books or articles you could read, and found his lectures quite down to earth and helpful.

So just search "Real Social Dynamics" and I'm sure you will find the videos. Just wanted to pass this along! Also, a lot of the stuff on his site is easily learned from reading most of the DJ bible, so he gets some bad respect from me for trying to come across as this really "helpless" guy when he is charging 2k+ for some of his programs.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I find that RSD customers seem to really enjoy sucking the d!cks of the RSD instructors (look at the rsdnation.com forums to see what I mean). They think everything RSD say is gospel. It's not. Nothing that cannot be learned on this very website, despite what they'll try to have you believe. To be fair, the same goes for most dating products. I watched about 3 hours of the blueprint, got bored, and deleted it. Too much filler. Nothing I hadn't heard before.

The bootcamps seem good though. Most people need a big kick start, and that's basically what the bootcamps are.
 
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I just finished "the Game" and the author mentions this. If whats in the book is true--and I'd say it is--he's nothing to be impressed with. I sure as hell wouldn't pay $1500 for it.

Think about it from their point of view? They get thousands of dollars, get to drive around in a limo, and have a bunch of lackies worship their every thought and move. No thanks.

Think about the frame they produce. It's expensive so it must be worth it! You expect to get great things out of it, so you try harder with girls. You're often in a place that is not your hometown so you have some cajones that you wouldn't normally have.

I can't blame them for doing it, but I wouldn't fall prey to it either.
 
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Read some of the field reports/success stories from their bootcamps... I plan on taking one when I have the cash.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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From what I've seen, RSD has top shelf solid material. That said, I think it's rather overpriced.
 
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