"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Real Social Dynamics

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Dunno if you guys have ever come across this guy. http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/bootcamps.asp

He basically teaches all of the DJ rules and everything and just changes some of the names... chump becomes Chode... etc.

Anyways, this isn't some advertisement for the product. His "Blueprint" videos are easy to obtain (you know how). I find that they were more helpful than any books or articles you could read, and found his lectures quite down to earth and helpful.

So just search "Real Social Dynamics" and I'm sure you will find the videos. Just wanted to pass this along! Also, a lot of the stuff on his site is easily learned from reading most of the DJ bible, so he gets some bad respect from me for trying to come across as this really "helpless" guy when he is charging 2k+ for some of his programs.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I find that RSD customers seem to really enjoy sucking the d!cks of the RSD instructors (look at the rsdnation.com forums to see what I mean). They think everything RSD say is gospel. It's not. Nothing that cannot be learned on this very website, despite what they'll try to have you believe. To be fair, the same goes for most dating products. I watched about 3 hours of the blueprint, got bored, and deleted it. Too much filler. Nothing I hadn't heard before.

The bootcamps seem good though. Most people need a big kick start, and that's basically what the bootcamps are.
 

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I just finished "the Game" and the author mentions this. If whats in the book is true--and I'd say it is--he's nothing to be impressed with. I sure as hell wouldn't pay $1500 for it.

Think about it from their point of view? They get thousands of dollars, get to drive around in a limo, and have a bunch of lackies worship their every thought and move. No thanks.

Think about the frame they produce. It's expensive so it must be worth it! You expect to get great things out of it, so you try harder with girls. You're often in a place that is not your hometown so you have some cajones that you wouldn't normally have.

I can't blame them for doing it, but I wouldn't fall prey to it either.
 

hamilton

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Read some of the field reports/success stories from their bootcamps... I plan on taking one when I have the cash.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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zekko

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From what I've seen, RSD has top shelf solid material. That said, I think it's rather overpriced.
 
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