"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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REAL SIGNS of Attraction

TheException

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Ive been meaning to get to this post for quite some time now....

Im sick of seeing guys creating posts about their oneitis/plate/potential plate/friend/prostitute etc and describing the "chemistry" or "attraction" that is there:

-We had really great conversation
-I made her laugh
-We touched a lot
-We talked about a similar interest and she was really digging me
-She smiled at me alot
-She had a great time on our date
-etc etc etc

HEY. These dont mean sh1t....ya thats right. Not a goddamn thing. Just because you took a girl out and had "great conversation" and "brushed a couple elbows" doesnt mean the girl finds you attractive. Ok exception, then what the he11 does? Ill tell you...physical/sexual escalation. PERIOD.

-Kiss
-Makeout
-Sex
-b1owj0b
-ehh i guess handjob although I can do that better myself

These^....Gentlemen.....are signs a girl is attracted to you. ALWAYS BE PUSHING FORWARD SEXUALLY. Friends DONT DO sexual things. You need to separate yourself from the category immediately....and never look back. Id rather attempt to escalate and be rejected than to have "a deep conversation" about how interesting political philosophy is. Sure, its not a bad thing if you and the girl have similar interests and she finds you interesting....but its much more important she finds you SEXY....and the only way for her to come to that conclusion....is if you escalate SEXUALLY.

So I hope I got through to a wide audience and even the veterans can appreciate this thread...and for them ill put a little bit here in the end for ways I escalate sexually.

Dinner/Movie
-"Hey, try this" Put my fork with food into her mouth.
-Hold Hands when walking to the movie.
-Wrap arm around her ASAP(start of movie when lights go down)
-Feed her popcorn and "accidently" drop some down her shirt...oops.
-Kiss her while doing the "jet plane"(think like feeding a baby) with a kernel of popcorn
-Hold Hands again to car
-Makeout
-F Close if im feeling it(often times im not).

See this^ NOW thats a fukin date and with a girl thats INTERESTED. Its all about the "P" getting into the "V"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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VladPatton

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-Make her drive stick shift on the way home (even though you have an automatic).
 

Deep Dish

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Slide your hand across her lower back. Own her.

Also, if a girl is aroused enough to be ready to romp, she will unconsciously play with her hair or lightly stroke her arm/wrist. It means she’s in heat. Of course, as with anything else, it can be faked by a devious attention whøre, but it’s the closest thing to a reliable signal of genuine sexual tension.
 
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Leave your hand out after a high-five. If she hangs on to it, you're in.
 

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I agree OP. needing signs of interest is for the weak. The best girls, the shy girls, don't give any signs of interest. They don't make it easy because they aren't easy, and it takes a real bloke to keep going forward despite the lack of encouragement to eventually get her in the sack.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mike32ct said:
If she's sitting next to you and her knees are apart and pointing at you, it's one of the best DTF signs.
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Nice.

How about if her eyes are glazed over and she's looking up at you like a puppy dog.
 

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If you can make her think about having sex with you, and make her think she did it HERSELF (if you do it right she won't be repulsed by the idea), then she's good to go.
 
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