"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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REAL SIGNS of Attraction

TheException

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Ive been meaning to get to this post for quite some time now....

Im sick of seeing guys creating posts about their oneitis/plate/potential plate/friend/prostitute etc and describing the "chemistry" or "attraction" that is there:

-We had really great conversation
-I made her laugh
-We touched a lot
-We talked about a similar interest and she was really digging me
-She smiled at me alot
-She had a great time on our date
-etc etc etc

HEY. These dont mean sh1t....ya thats right. Not a goddamn thing. Just because you took a girl out and had "great conversation" and "brushed a couple elbows" doesnt mean the girl finds you attractive. Ok exception, then what the he11 does? Ill tell you...physical/sexual escalation. PERIOD.

-Kiss
-Makeout
-Sex
-b1owj0b
-ehh i guess handjob although I can do that better myself

These^....Gentlemen.....are signs a girl is attracted to you. ALWAYS BE PUSHING FORWARD SEXUALLY. Friends DONT DO sexual things. You need to separate yourself from the category immediately....and never look back. Id rather attempt to escalate and be rejected than to have "a deep conversation" about how interesting political philosophy is. Sure, its not a bad thing if you and the girl have similar interests and she finds you interesting....but its much more important she finds you SEXY....and the only way for her to come to that conclusion....is if you escalate SEXUALLY.

So I hope I got through to a wide audience and even the veterans can appreciate this thread...and for them ill put a little bit here in the end for ways I escalate sexually.

Dinner/Movie
-"Hey, try this" Put my fork with food into her mouth.
-Hold Hands when walking to the movie.
-Wrap arm around her ASAP(start of movie when lights go down)
-Feed her popcorn and "accidently" drop some down her shirt...oops.
-Kiss her while doing the "jet plane"(think like feeding a baby) with a kernel of popcorn
-Hold Hands again to car
-Makeout
-F Close if im feeling it(often times im not).

See this^ NOW thats a fukin date and with a girl thats INTERESTED. Its all about the "P" getting into the "V"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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VladPatton

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-Make her drive stick shift on the way home (even though you have an automatic).
 

Deep Dish

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Slide your hand across her lower back. Own her.

Also, if a girl is aroused enough to be ready to romp, she will unconsciously play with her hair or lightly stroke her arm/wrist. It means she’s in heat. Of course, as with anything else, it can be faked by a devious attention whøre, but it’s the closest thing to a reliable signal of genuine sexual tension.
 
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Leave your hand out after a high-five. If she hangs on to it, you're in.
 

Tomthebomb

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I agree OP. needing signs of interest is for the weak. The best girls, the shy girls, don't give any signs of interest. They don't make it easy because they aren't easy, and it takes a real bloke to keep going forward despite the lack of encouragement to eventually get her in the sack.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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plate's_empty

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Mike32ct said:
If she's sitting next to you and her knees are apart and pointing at you, it's one of the best DTF signs.
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Nice.

How about if her eyes are glazed over and she's looking up at you like a puppy dog.
 

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If you can make her think about having sex with you, and make her think she did it HERSELF (if you do it right she won't be repulsed by the idea), then she's good to go.
 
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