"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I finally found a type of music that I love and I wanted to share this. First off I'm a guitarist. I consider music one of my only real talents. I'm the guy that you hear about who plays for hours and hours. Now I hate most modern music because it's completely unoriginal and for the most part unmoving and uninspiring and for long time I've been into some of the great guitarists: Eric Clapton, Jimmy Page, etc. The problem is that I really don't like the electric guitar that much. Now don't get me wrong there are some amazing songs out there on the electric, but I really don't like heavy stuff that much. So for a long time I've felt as though music hasn't been what it could be.

It seems as though I've finally found what I've been waiting for: folk music. This kind of music is everything I've wanted music to have:

1. A range of simple to complex acoustic guitar playing that is very melodic.

2. Simple poetic lyrics. I love poetry but I don't like it when a poem feels like the poet is trying to show off his mastery of techniques.

3.Meaningful lyrics, mostly in narrative form. I love songs that talk about subjects that the top executives and the blue-collar workers can relate to.

4.Love potrayed realistically. Regardless of what some of you may say I do believe in love. Not the obsession that you hear about in emo songs, but real, blood, sweat, and tears kind of love. The kind of love a man has for a woman who stuck by his side for 30 years.

Anyway, to make a long story short if anyone is interested in this genre here are some great artists:

Woody Guthrie
Bob Dylan (An obvious one I know)
Phil Ochs
Donovan
The Band
Grateful Dead
Doc Watson
Joan Baez
Gordon Lightfoot
Johnny Cash (His songs are folkish)
Arlo Guthrie
Pete Seeger
Judy Collins

If you know of any other great folk artists please let me know.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A few obvious ones you missed:

America
Cat Stevens
Don McLean
Simon and Garfunkel
 

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Nick Drake. Nick Drake. Oh my god, I can't believe you don't about Nick Drake yet.

Check him out. Get his album "Pink Moon." It's going to blow your mind apart if you like folk.
 

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Originally posted by The Forms
Nick Drake. Nick Drake. Oh my god, I can't believe you don't about Nick Drake yet.

Check him out. Get his album "Pink Moon." It's going to blow your mind apart if you like folk.
It's also depressing as hell. Still really good, though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sorry for taking so long to reply. I've been out of state for the past week.

I know about Nick Drake, Simon and Garfunkel, and Don Mclean. I'll have to check out America and Cat Stevens. James Taylor is another good artist. I meant to include him with the list but I forgot. Jack Johnson is good too, although I think he uses the same chords too much.
 

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Dave Matthews has some great accoustic music. Most of it is pretty much chords but you're switching them pretty fast and it's fairly challenging. I like the intro to the some Jimi Thing. Others are great too.
 
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