"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I finally found a type of music that I love and I wanted to share this. First off I'm a guitarist. I consider music one of my only real talents. I'm the guy that you hear about who plays for hours and hours. Now I hate most modern music because it's completely unoriginal and for the most part unmoving and uninspiring and for long time I've been into some of the great guitarists: Eric Clapton, Jimmy Page, etc. The problem is that I really don't like the electric guitar that much. Now don't get me wrong there are some amazing songs out there on the electric, but I really don't like heavy stuff that much. So for a long time I've felt as though music hasn't been what it could be.

It seems as though I've finally found what I've been waiting for: folk music. This kind of music is everything I've wanted music to have:

1. A range of simple to complex acoustic guitar playing that is very melodic.

2. Simple poetic lyrics. I love poetry but I don't like it when a poem feels like the poet is trying to show off his mastery of techniques.

3.Meaningful lyrics, mostly in narrative form. I love songs that talk about subjects that the top executives and the blue-collar workers can relate to.

4.Love potrayed realistically. Regardless of what some of you may say I do believe in love. Not the obsession that you hear about in emo songs, but real, blood, sweat, and tears kind of love. The kind of love a man has for a woman who stuck by his side for 30 years.

Anyway, to make a long story short if anyone is interested in this genre here are some great artists:

Woody Guthrie
Bob Dylan (An obvious one I know)
Phil Ochs
Donovan
The Band
Grateful Dead
Doc Watson
Joan Baez
Gordon Lightfoot
Johnny Cash (His songs are folkish)
Arlo Guthrie
Pete Seeger
Judy Collins

If you know of any other great folk artists please let me know.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A few obvious ones you missed:

America
Cat Stevens
Don McLean
Simon and Garfunkel
 

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Nick Drake. Nick Drake. Oh my god, I can't believe you don't about Nick Drake yet.

Check him out. Get his album "Pink Moon." It's going to blow your mind apart if you like folk.
 

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Originally posted by The Forms
Nick Drake. Nick Drake. Oh my god, I can't believe you don't about Nick Drake yet.

Check him out. Get his album "Pink Moon." It's going to blow your mind apart if you like folk.
It's also depressing as hell. Still really good, though.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sorry for taking so long to reply. I've been out of state for the past week.

I know about Nick Drake, Simon and Garfunkel, and Don Mclean. I'll have to check out America and Cat Stevens. James Taylor is another good artist. I meant to include him with the list but I forgot. Jack Johnson is good too, although I think he uses the same chords too much.
 

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Dave Matthews has some great accoustic music. Most of it is pretty much chords but you're switching them pretty fast and it's fairly challenging. I like the intro to the some Jimi Thing. Others are great too.
 
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