"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Real Life Socialite On Online Dating?

ThisNThat

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This particular woman is rather well known in the community, is self-employed marketer. Really don't know what she does, but she hosts a lot of social mixers and such.

The one thing she pointed out in her profile that was particularly eye-catching/presumptuous on her part is where she said that "If you already know me or we've met...then don't contact me because chances are, if we didn't click romantically in person, it means it won't happen here."

I was like "Wow, just when I was about to email BECAUSE I knew her would give me a step-ahead of the sea of horny losers in her inbox."

Just curious as to why she would discount men she already met in person?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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marmel75

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This particular woman is rather well known in the community, is self-employed marketer. Really don't know what she does, but she hosts a lot of social mixers and such.

The one thing she pointed out in her profile that was particularly eye-catching/presumptuous on her part is where she said that "If you already know me or we've met...then don't contact me because chances are, if we didn't click romantically in person, it means it won't happen here."

I was like "Wow, just when I was about to email BECAUSE I knew her would give me a step-ahead of the sea of horny losers in her inbox."

Just curious as to why she would discount men she already met in person?
Why would you want to waste time meeting someone you already knew you weren't interested in?
 
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