"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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real life situations usingC/f walking up to HBs

boulepiquante

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i ve read the DJ bible
but do you think we coul have more examples of ****Y AND FUNNY in real life situations?
LIKE IN A SHOP
AT THE MEAT COUNTER
IN THE STREET
AT THE BAR
STANDING IN LINE AT THE CINEMA
AT THE DRUGSTORE
AT THE NEWSAGENT
WITH THIS SEXY REP or WOMAN WORKING AT THE PERFUME SHOO
real dialogues with ME and YOU interracting
that might truly help lots of guys

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So longs you have an idea what C&F is and means you can make up your own. Its not bad at all to have canned C&F to use on special occasions but just come up with your own C&F on the fly.
 

SamePendo

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Originally posted by boulepiquante

real dialogues with ME and YOU interracting
Wooooww.. 1 min man... I don't want nothing with you.. tell you what, let's be friends ok?

Standing in line "Hi... What's your name?... ___ could you please hold my space for a min? *you go do something, whatever, not for long though!* ... Thanks!, you know, I wanted to see ___ but _____."

Lesson there? If you can't think of anything c&f, don't, but at least talk. And use some of the basic c&f afterwards.



At the drugstore "Are you staring at me? ... right, must be the drugs, that's why you're here anyways.

and, the one I originaly replied this thread... drumroll....

Woman working at perfume shop "You know, one would expect someone working at a perfume shop to smell nice... well, at least not smell bad.."

My advice? Approach and approach using the basics that you've learned, and the mindset will come to you naturally, along with original c&f. And another advice, since you are asking this question, it means you arent comfortable yet using c&f, which means the line I gave above would possibly be performed in a non appropiatte manner.
 

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I like telling them they have something in their teeth. If they take it well, I pinch a little piece of tobacco from a cigarette and put it in my teeth and say "Here, I put something in my teeth too so you wouldn't feel so bad"
Then I ask them if they always walk around with stuff in their teeth. Or, I'll ask why their friends wouldn't tell them (if they're with friends)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Can't think of much at the moment but I was bending over the other day around my lady friend and I knew she wasnt staring at me and I said "Hey are you looking at my ass?" she replied with "no"(kiddingly) then I said "just because my ass is nicer then yours doesnt mean you have the right to stare at it" and she just rolled her eyes. The small little comments like that keep stuff fun.
 
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