"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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REal flirty, then 3 mins later, not so flirty...

gimmeyofonenumba

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Alright, there is this one chick in one of my classes, one minute(like 5 minutes really) she is flirty, loads of eye contact, sits in front of me, and turns around to talk to me and smears the sh!t outa of her boobs on the back of the chair(wtf is one supposed to do? stare or what?) anyways like when class is over(class is 2 hrs long) i try talkin to her, and there just aint too much goin on. I've brought her up before, and ya'll labeled her as an AW, which i think is accurate. Anyways, me, her and a few other mates from lecture are meeting up to study. I feel as if i need a strategy. Should i ignore her? neg hit her? pos hit her in her face?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jariel

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Do the same as she's doing. Show her attention one minute, then act like she's not in the room the next minute.

Think about how her erratic attention and mixed signals is playing on your mind and do the same to her.
 

undesputable

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yea shes just a tease/attention *****, just ignore her when she pulls her **** on you.
 
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