"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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REal flirty, then 3 mins later, not so flirty...

gimmeyofonenumba

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Alright, there is this one chick in one of my classes, one minute(like 5 minutes really) she is flirty, loads of eye contact, sits in front of me, and turns around to talk to me and smears the sh!t outa of her boobs on the back of the chair(wtf is one supposed to do? stare or what?) anyways like when class is over(class is 2 hrs long) i try talkin to her, and there just aint too much goin on. I've brought her up before, and ya'll labeled her as an AW, which i think is accurate. Anyways, me, her and a few other mates from lecture are meeting up to study. I feel as if i need a strategy. Should i ignore her? neg hit her? pos hit her in her face?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jariel

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Do the same as she's doing. Show her attention one minute, then act like she's not in the room the next minute.

Think about how her erratic attention and mixed signals is playing on your mind and do the same to her.
 

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yea shes just a tease/attention *****, just ignore her when she pulls her **** on you.
 
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