"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Real Depressed; Need Desperate Help

seabreeze

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Yes 00Kevin,

I'm in the "itty bitty kitty committee."

What's funny is, I've always had this fantasy of being with a man with a nine inch penis. Isn't that ironic?
SB ;)

P.S. What's a mercy fcuk?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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2niceaguy

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Originally posted by seabreeze


P.S. What's a mercy fcuk?
LOL...out of pity they think you as a female should "help" 6 pack out with a mercy f**K. Free "ride", "take one for the team", however you want to put it.
:D
 

00Kevin

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yes seabrease, sometimes you have to perform the selfless act. You've got to be kind and generous.
 

Crank_It_Up

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Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
hung : thats for the uplift. but it takes time to get over a rejection. check this out, i have been with a total of 5 women in my life, the first 4 asked me out, but today after 26.5 years i asked a girl out!

p.s : i do see this girl often in the cafeteria where i work..how should be my approach? ignore her?
that's where you made your mistake, by being such a player. Only 26.5 years old and already you asked a girl out. A real gentleman would have waited until he was at least 40 years old. No wonder she was not interested, what were you thinking?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
i still need more help.....
Six Pack to Go, we can't do it for you. You need to change your mindset!! It is up to you!
 

SIXPAKGQ

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crank : wait till i was 40? what for? I mean when I use to live in California, women were real aggressive down there. In Texas its a different story
 

Crank_It_Up

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Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
crank : wait till i was 40? what for? I mean when I use to live in California, women were real aggressive down there. In Texas its a different story
yeah, you don't want her to think you're a player right? Why rush it, just wait till you're 40 and make sure she won't think you're a player.

She might think you're gay, or perhaps a wimp, but so what, at least she won't think you're a player. Keep up the good work.
 

Ice Cold

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Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
Hi, I had been seeing this girl for about 5 months as friends. did everything that a DJ can do. She is a "nice" girl but she gave obvious signals for me to ask her out, at the end, she said that you took the wrong way, is it my fault? i really liked this girl to become my g/f....how can i recover from this mess? I am really depressed...
1) You're way too innocent. It's ok to kiss on the first date. If you don't kiss on the 3rd date (you should always try at the second date at the latest) just next the girl.

2) She doesn't have to be the ONE. She will be the FIRST, but that's about it. Take the plunge.

3) Next this girl and go for another one.
 

giartodil

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I don't think the situation is hopless
at all.So far I think you were together
for quite a long time and" endured"
being close friends which is not the best way romanses usualy go but
it doesn't mean that the don't go
after that.
3 days of alianation might help
to make her waiting and than step
in with an obvious intentions of
romanse.
may be so I'm not shure.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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giartodil

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I don't think the situation is hopless
at all.So far I think you were together
for quite a long time and" endured"
being close friends which is not the best way romanses usualy go but
it doesn't mean that the don't go
after that.
3 days of alianation might help
to make her waiting and than step
in with an obvious intentions of
romanse.
may be so I'm not shure.
 

giartodil

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I don't think the situation is hopless
at all.So far I think you were together
for quite a long time and" endured"
being close friends which is not the best way romanses usualy go but
it doesn't mean that the don't go
after that.
3 days of alianation might help
to make her waiting and than step
in with an obvious intentions of
romanse.
may be so I'm not shure.
 
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