"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Real Confidence or liquid confidence

ballinNY

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In this life I have learned one thing thus far and that is without confidence you will go nowhere. Confidence is the foundation of any success and it is vital in becoming successful in this world. Here is a piece of advice I have found helps with confidence and it is alcohol related. Alcohol has NO positive benefits and various negative consequences. Alcohol gives you a false sense of confidence but it is nothing that is real. Everyone loves drinking because they can forget there problems even though when they sober up their problems will be right there staring them in the eyes. Alcohol makes things worse in my mind due to hangovers, laziness, bad decisions(Sluts, DUI) and it makes you get fat. None of those listed help your confidence levels at all. I have made the commitment to authenic confidence not liquid confiedence.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Sperminator

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Theres definitely a difference in liquid confidence and real confidence but I think liquid courage can help you. See if you have a good personality or you are a good talker but you can't approach woman bc you have no confidence then you are ****ed but if you have liquid courage you can approach anyone bc you dont care and you are confident. But how does liquid courage help your real confidence. Well heres an example I used to go to bars but would never approach if I wasnt drunk but I had good game. So after I kept on getting numbers and girls interested in me I didn't need to drink bc my real confidence went way up bc of the success I was getting. Everytime you do well your confidence soars drunk or not.
 
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