"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Real Confidence or liquid confidence

ballinNY

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In this life I have learned one thing thus far and that is without confidence you will go nowhere. Confidence is the foundation of any success and it is vital in becoming successful in this world. Here is a piece of advice I have found helps with confidence and it is alcohol related. Alcohol has NO positive benefits and various negative consequences. Alcohol gives you a false sense of confidence but it is nothing that is real. Everyone loves drinking because they can forget there problems even though when they sober up their problems will be right there staring them in the eyes. Alcohol makes things worse in my mind due to hangovers, laziness, bad decisions(Sluts, DUI) and it makes you get fat. None of those listed help your confidence levels at all. I have made the commitment to authenic confidence not liquid confiedence.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Sperminator

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Theres definitely a difference in liquid confidence and real confidence but I think liquid courage can help you. See if you have a good personality or you are a good talker but you can't approach woman bc you have no confidence then you are ****ed but if you have liquid courage you can approach anyone bc you dont care and you are confident. But how does liquid courage help your real confidence. Well heres an example I used to go to bars but would never approach if I wasnt drunk but I had good game. So after I kept on getting numbers and girls interested in me I didn't need to drink bc my real confidence went way up bc of the success I was getting. Everytime you do well your confidence soars drunk or not.
 
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