"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ready To Next Her

DJsparky

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My gf has been treating me like utter crap lately, she's selfish all she cares about is herself. Fact is i thought it was cos she was going off me turns out it's because shes a very dulll girl, u know the kind thinks about her own interests only talks about those.

Well this morning peed me off to much, she said "i deserve better, because all the other girls i seem to know do a better job at making me happy." u know the jealous so i sent her a text and said:
Maybe i do deserve better :) its obv you dont need me now anyways :) but i dont care no more do wha u want


Im ready to next her, i already have 4 girls in the lineup

as anyone ever come across these girls? shes a HB 7, dull, talks about her own interests (horses ffs!) cares about herself, when people are upset she trys to get the attention

i think its pretty clear that i dont need her
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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S1NN3R

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Well, just do it then, indeed.

There's no point in sticking around if it's not fun. You're not staying together for the kids sake, neither of you are terminally ill, and there's no nasty divorce to deal with. No better situation to walk away from.

Walking feels good. I was with this one girl for about a month, and the sex was great, she was super hot (9.7), good social circle from her, all sorts of positives. But she was dumb. I mean really dumb. So dumb in fact, she would probably be the first eliminated in an on-line spelling bee, if you know what I mean. And one day I just thought, screw it. I hate how dumb she is. Why the hell am I not out looking for the girl who has all of Aspen's positive traits, but isn't stupid? And that was that.

There are enough girls out there, and you can get any of them, so there's no reason to stay serious or stay at all with a girl who's not everything you want.
 
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DJsparky

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It is hard due to the fact i have a oneitis problem but i can see shes dull i just feel peed off the fact i put all my effort in the relationship
 
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