"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ready to flake?

soulforge

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Yeh I mean the date was set.. Best way to approach this would have been been, to do nothing and leave the ball in her court.

01. She would have either not mentioned the arranged date at all and simply acted like it was never arranged in the first place, which is clear low interest, making it clear not to bother with her again.

02. She flakes, you simply accept the flake without coming across as being annoyed by it, and wait for her to reschedule if she ever reaches out again.

Also my man, co-worker relationship generally not a good idea. It can end up getting rather messy.
 

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soulforge said:
Yeh I mean the date was set.. Best way to approach this would have been been, to do nothing and leave the ball in her court.

01. She would have either not mentioned the arranged date at all and simply acted like it was never arranged in the first place, which is clear low interest, making it clear not to bother with her again.

02. She flakes, you simply accept the flake without coming across as being annoyed by it, and wait for her to reschedule if she ever reaches out again.

Also my man, co-worker relationship generally not a good idea. It can end up getting rather messy.
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Thing is,this isn't even a flake. This is rather a case of a man being insecure and egotistical.

I agree with both your statements.
 
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