"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tiesto5

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Ok so a little about myself. I am a sophmore in highschool. I have alot of friends. In my highschool there are pretty much two types of girls. The girls who party every night and get wasted. That's not for me. Then there are the girls who don't do that. Obviously i am going for the latter of the two. So i play three sports. I'm not a superstar, but i play atleast. I get good grades. I'm not amazing looking, but i'm not bad. I am really not that confident. I talk to girls. I have never really gone out with a girl. Now i came here to change. I'll listen to anybody's advice. I'll do what you say and give you the updates. So any advice is welcome. If you have any other questions just ask?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, for starters, I recommend reading the HS Bible thread.
 

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You're hamstringing yourself by not going for the party girls
 

tiesto5

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I've been reading the bible.
I need like a coach sort of, someone to set goals or something like that
Give me some reasons to be ok with the party girls
I'll give you an update after tomorrow's day at school
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CaptainJ

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tiesto5 said:
I've been reading the bible.
I need like a coach sort of, someone to set goals or something like that
Give me some reasons to be ok with the party girls
I'll give you an update after tomorrow's day at school
Well for one thing, party girls are fun, sociable, and usually not frigid. Unlike the girls who don't party who are usually losers who stay at home all day.

The party girls are the ones who will boost your social proof, will be more sexual with you and you'll be more likely to fvck them, or atleast pull them.
 

tiesto5

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Ok well you guys convinced me to not rule out the party girls so their's another option.
So today i got to school today talked to some guy friends about their weekends and the olympics. Go USA Hockey

A girl came up to me and talked to me about my weekend but i'm not that into her. Her problem is somedays she looks hot but most of the time she's not even hot.

Then later on there are these two girls that are best friends both HB6's. The one girl i know pretty well i only see her one period a day though. Were friendly but idk if she is into me. Her friend i think use to be into me, but i blew that one.
Any Advice on these girls??
Are they worth pusrsuing, if so, how should i do it??
 

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Update:: Still need alot of help

So we have these tesing sessions

How could i approach a group of girls... I know them, but were not friendly at all.

Any other advice would be greatly appreciated
 

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ask them for a pencil/pen......then say thanks ( pause)...wats ur name? thanks _________. build up from there
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mr.Freestyler19 said:
ask them for a pencil/pen......then say thanks ( pause)...wats ur name? thanks _________. build up from there


I know them and have spoken with them before...
Anything else??
 
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